I began training with Lloyd in early 2000. We trained in a battlezone of an environment, one in which you better bring your heart every practice. The amount of quality guys he produced from virtually nothing was simply amazing. I even fought amateur fights under him in the early years. Lloyd was a phenomenal coach and competitor. I also trained with Dalla for a bit. I am forever loyal to Lloyd for molding me into a person who could competently defend himself and his family. However, I am not loyal to a whole bunch of bs and drama.
Life took me in other directions with a family and jobs. I literally took off 8 years of training due to many factors. Flash forward to the fall of 2012. I wanted to get my son into another activity and I felt BJJ would be a great fit for him. I took him to a great gym right down the road from me with an instructor I knew from many years ago. In the process of taking my son down to the gym I got the BJJ fever again and have been training a couple times a week, my busy life permitted.
I was all excited to tell Lloyd that I got back into training again, but then I read all this crap and realized how insignificant my little life was compared to all this bs drama. It is is absolutely ridiculous to see grown men and women speaking to each other in such fashion. It is beneath the code of BJJ and martial arts in general to act in such an infantile fashion.
What the hell has happened to the BJJ I left in 2004?
I don't like to get into the politics of things b/c in the end, it is all BS. But I can tell you this.....my heart hurts for all this crap. I read the posts and especially those facebook screenshots anaconda posted and I am just disgusted. Disgusted. We are talking about supposedly professional people saying, "come make him shut up tough guy" "STFU" "C'mon Son" (over and over until you sound collectively like morons) and many other things that grown people, "professionals", and martial arts "leaders"/associates should not say.
Get your crap straight. Those of you acting in the above manner are an embarrassment to the martial arts community. I would never let my son train anywhere near people who post, "STFU" or a variety of other things on facebook and in other forums. What a joke.
This is BJJ. While it is important to many, it is not and should not be, the be all end all of life. The BJJ, chest puffing peacocks need to get over themselves. Martial arts and BJJ should be about building better people and creating a sense of community.
In the end I agree with this.....
"Fuck marketing schemes. Fuck business consulting. Fuck Aston Martins and bundles of 20's. Fuck instructional DVD packages on business models. Fuck upselling and high pressure sales and all the greed that has gotten into this sport. You know what I'll pay for? High-energy classes with a consistent level of instruction, instructors who push their students a little harder than they want to push themselves, that lead by example"