Social Adult content creators and male loneliness

RoastBeast said:
Most lonely guys only have themselves to blame.

My coworker is trying to hook one of our single coworkers up with his cousin. The single coworker is tall, decent looking, charismatic and funny...yet he struggles mightily with women. I met the coworker's cousin at a party one time and she's attractive, engaging, isn't obsessed with social media and loves heavy metal, despite you never being able to guess by looking at her.

We got the two of them talking at the party and he barely said anything to her. I got them hooked up to play this party game together and he just stepped aside and told me that I should play against her instead. The coworker and his cousin were then going to an afterparty and she invited the single coworker to go with her and he said he had to be up early the next morning (lying, it was the weekend).

She then adds him on Instagram and he doesn't message her so she unfriends him. We're going to a local concert this weekend and we invited the single coworker so he can hang out with her again and he's pretending to be busy.

It's not often you get a dude offering his cool ass cousin up like that but a lot of younger guys these days are just pussies and can't put themselves in uncomfortable situations to get what they really want.
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Maybe he does not like her? She may be cool but may not match his preferences? Or he's (secretly) gay?
 
Nameless King said:
Adult content creators and male loneliness - both of these goes hand in hand.

The latter is fuelling the former. But what is fuelling the latter?

Loneliness and emotional connection. Often single, introverted and socially isolated individuals will opt for this type of... entertainment/engagement? You call it.

And I'm one of them, single, introverted and socially isolated beta boy. And by the looks of it I'm just a drop in the ocean. Adult entertainment market is valued today at $172 billions which is expected to grow to $248 billions by 2030. Big numbers. Myself alone I can easily spend a half to 70% of my wages on that stuff each month. Lots of my friends which are alphas experience increased difficulty in dating lately and funny enough one of them actually blamed people like me for that, for fuelling this trend and indirectly encouraging more women to follow. (I'm quite open with my friends about these matters).

A lot of women are increasingly more picky as well as social media creates an image of a gym toned body guy with expensive car and a lot of women see it as a benchmark. You can probably as well recall a lot of women posting pictures saying 'know your worth, don't settle for less'. Not that I want to blame women but then again if men didn't faced such dating issues then realistically I guess men would spend much much less on stuff like that. Myself I mostly pay for personalised videos from adult content creators as it helps me cope mentally with loneliness and I do accept that I'm part of the problem.

But then again, what else is there left for me?
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italiamusica said:
One thing that I think is sad/interesting about all of this is that, the majority of women say that porn is ruining relationships. Which I agree with, there's a lot of dudes whose sole goal is to get home and beat it to some woman online, and ignoring the woman he has in person. But then some of these women go and make an OF or something similar, and at that point I feel like you can't really complain if you're actively contributing to the problem.
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From some of the interviews I've seen I think OF has become a sick form of validation for young women. Like their friend starts one and they want to start one and make more money than her as it's a metric of their comparative worth the same way women compete over their number of followers on Instagram etc.
 
RoastBeast said:
It's not often you get a dude offering his cool ass cousin up like that but a lot of younger guys these days are just pussies and can't put themselves in uncomfortable situations to get what they really want.
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True. I'd have went out with her and let her know my future intention to...


EndlessCritic said:
At least the OP isn't this guy: https://www.fortmcmurraytoday.com/n...nt-credit-cards-to-fund-pornography-addiction
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Ya know that cat has a future in politics...

or maybe a future contender to win a Darwin Award.
 
ColemanwastheGOAT said:
From some of the interviews I've seen I think OF has become a sick form of validation for young women. Like their friend starts one and they want to start one and make more money than her as it's a metric of their comparative worth the same way women compete over their number of followers on Instagram etc.
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Yep. Not sure what would be worse: A daughter with a successful onlyfans account, or a daughter with an unsuccessful onlyfans account.
 
ssBaldy said:
Maybe he does not like her? She may be cool but may not match his preferences? Or he's (secretly) gay?
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He was into her. At least he told me so after they had left the party. Gaydar doesn't go off when I'm around him but I've wondered that too.

He's always sending me pictures of girls he matches with on dating sites and they are absolutely disgusting. He said he can't even get a 5/10 to meet up with him for a date. Then he finally gets a situation where this super cool LA 7 lands right in his lap and he just locks up and does nothing. This girl could not have made it easier on him. She was witty, funny and completely engaged with the people she talked to. She wasn't one of those "you better impress me or you can't hold my attention for more than 2 seconds" types.

It's really a mystery. I've known other guys that have really struggled with girls and it's pretty easy to figure out why but I can't figure out for the life of me what his deal is.
 
Even innate desires like companionship and sexuality are subject to the power of your own mind. If you choose to view women on these sites as divine beings who deserve the contents of your wallet, that will be your reality.

If you choose to see them just as people trying to make a buck, and offering nothing really different than the next creator, then that will be your reality. The latter will make you less likely to obsess over these women. It all comes down to your perception.
 
Stop thinking of yourself as a loser

Think highly of yourself, you got some skills and talents

Hit the gym or any sport, how bout Muay Thai ?

Spend your money on a car and house / apartment. Wtf are you gonna impress girls with your usb stick of custom porn

Spend the money on clothes, healthy food, experiences, dental, hair ect ect

If your friends are alpha you are too. If they actually are good you need to pack with them and be good too

Don't think others got the right thinking that you are shit. No you are worth a lot to yourself. If you are a nice person who treats others well, they like you.

Learn to speak. Practice speaking. Hang out with who you have and build on that

Gym and sports clubs are self respect and work. Dressing. Hair. Teeth. Don't get me wrong you don't gotta be perfect.

Social media is not real life. It's a small recording of it.

Stop throwing your money away you corn addict.

Build yourself of your hard work.

Respect is earned. Lift the barbell up. Do something. Don't be a corn tard and tell yourself these pathological stories of why you think you won't make it. You got talents. Think of yourself positively.
 
aerius said:
Shouldn't take long to go from this to a sex-bot.

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Can you imagine the advertising for product testers for those?

Looking for: Fuck testers for sex bots... only minimal chance of them accidentally snapping your dick off. :eek:
 
Contempt said:
Can you imagine the advertising for product testers for those?

Looking for: Fuck testers for sex bots... only minimal chance of them accidentally snapping your dick off. :eek:
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male low level porn stars.
if guys are willing to go gay for pay, this must be s step up?
 
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