Do you get aroused doing JJ with a woman. Very serious post, no jokes.

I find girls who roll unattractive. Even the "hawt" girls of bjj aren't exactly pretty.
 
Having no BJJ experience I'm going with a Judo story.

We had twin ladies on our team, they were very in shape and were not unattractive.

First and foremost though, they were our teammates and were respected as much as the guys. They trained harder than we did and made up for their size by being quick and agile as hell. There were never any inappropriate thoughts because they were part of the team, and therefore family. They made us better and if we slacked with them, then we'd pay. One of them had a Taiotoshi that was so brutal that after 5 of them you were too sore to think about getting booty 5 hours later when you got home.

Basically the moral is, don't mix business (MA) and pleasure when it comes to your team, club, or dojo. If shit goes south, then you've ruined the training enviroment for everyone else.
 
Soid said:
I find girls who roll unattractive. Even the "hawt" girls of bjj aren't exactly pretty.
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even though kyra gracie is a babe in physical terms, in interviews I've seen, she's got some fairly masculine mannerisms and speech. of course, you'd probably know better than me training at renzo's.
 
Machine_isu said:
i roll with some hot chicks at my school in the wrestling room and the very first time i dreaded the fact that maybe i'd get aroused, but once we started i just focused on doing the best i could and it never has, and never will be a problem. hell even when i get smothered by boobs or something it's doesn't affect me too much, which is disturbing but i guess i concentrate on the task at hand pretty well lol.
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YOU ARE DEFINITELY GAY! Go have that checked by a doctor.

Just kidding.:icon_lol:

I've never rolled with any females, so I can't really chime in.
 
Just imagine you're both naked ... err ... i guess that only works with speeches.

We have a few girls, never had a chubby while rolling with them but then at the same time, none of them are attractive. Still don't think i'd pop one but if i did i would tape that shit to my leg to save myself the embarrassment.

But my advice would be to beat it the night before you go to class and don't look at porn or do anything that will add to the curiosity.

.........Or, you might need to see if she wants to "roll" after class :icon_chee
 
Is it bad to think about jujitsu during sex and when the girl is on top, you grab an arm, trap a leg, bridge and roll?
 
honestly getting aroused(even with a hot girl) is the last thing on my mind when rolling. im much more focused on beating my opponent and technique than my dick getting hard
 
usually not because I am focusing very intently on not being embarassed.
 
Soulbane said:
The last place you want to pick up, or scout chicks is a martial arts center.

One thing goes bad, one bit of drama, and its either super uncomfortable, or either one of you leaves the gym.
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Very true. Found that out the hard way :(

- J.
 
She's reading your post right now and she is traumatized
 
Terminator71 said:
Believe it or not I roll with this Hottie(click link below) and she was Playboys Cyber girl of the month last year. She wears shit like cheerleading shorts and tube tops to roll in also. Fuckin kills me when I roll with her!! LOL

http://www.johnnycrosslin.com/models/recent/sheenalleeba1/gia.htm
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You should let your instructor know that he should include that little factoid in his advertisements.....

If you are not lying, you must have done something tremendous in your previous life to deserve this type of karma.

To the OP-

Wear a cup...

Try to stay focused...

Don't have sex with her...if you are like me after you had sex with her whenever you rolled you would be thinking about the last time she was on her back with her legs in the air...
 
I just choke them quick and move on. Just like real life.

Seriously though the only time I was ever uncomfortable was when i was doing pummeling (greco) drills with a particularly buxom lass. She was probably under aged too. That goes down as the only unpleasant expirience I've ever had with breasts.
 
thetruth2709 said:
I swear I am not trying to play a joke here. I am very serious about this I will proceed to explain how I got into this predicament.

Our class was originally for Muay Thai but due to their recent announcement of mma classes, for the last months the instructor rolls the mat and we've been doing some wrestling and basic Jiu Jitsu for mma, its cool, everybody likes it and nobody has a problem with it.

Besides all the guys, there is 2 girls who usually attend the classes, one is a physical trainer and she really can kick ass and the other one is just a girl trying to get in shape, she is kinda cute but nobody really tries to hit on her or anything, just a hi and a smile and she is cool with it.

Sometimes because of work I get to the training a little late, and the instructor usually makes the guy who gets late pair up with the newbies or "the girls" kinda like a punishment because one can not go all out since you have to be considered with the less experience student. Because of this reason many times I've been paired with one of the girls doing punches and kicks, no problem, I can not kick their ass but they can kick mine, I'm a good sport.

But the other night I got late and got paired up with one of the girls (not the trainer, the other kinda cute) no problem, I've been paired with her before and we are cool, but this night since this new addition of wrestling and JJ we got on the floor and started doing some JJ techniques. The second the instructor told the class for one get on guard on bottom and the other on top I didnt know how to react, fortunately she just acted normal, got on her back and opened her legs (see even saying it sounds sexual) I got on top and she wrapped her legs around my back.

We started rolling, I was trying to stand on my toes so I could raise her butt and trap her arm under it (that was the technique we were practicing) and I swear that for moments I was really doing the motions of dry humping her over the mat and many times it even got worse when she couldnt lock her legs on my back and would end up with her legs almost under my own butt, making a direct contact of our parts. I thought I could remain "professional" about it but I couldnt, yea I admit it I got aroused, sorry guys, not trying to disrespect the sport, but I am a man and anybody who's been in this situation I hope can understand me.

Fortunately for me as soon as I started feeling a hard-on the instructor told us to switch positions and save me the embarrasement. I cooled down for a bit but then again after a few minutes I got on top of her again and there we go again, its even impossible not to get into the dry humping when you are on top trying to do something. The class ended up being cruel but interesting at the same time.

For the most part she just acted normal, but yea maybe even in a couple moments she kinda smiled at the situation when it was too obious that I was acting uncomfortable. At the end of the class she just smiled at me and said see ya, and that was all, i dont think she noticed what happened to me during class and I was relieved she didnt

HAS ANYBODY EVER BEEN IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS BEFORE????
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thats usually a sign for me to hit it :)
 
Thrawn33 said:
Having no BJJ experience I'm going with a Judo story.

We had twin ladies on our team, they were very in shape and were not unattractive.

First and foremost though, they were our teammates and were respected as much as the guys. They trained harder than we did and made up for their size by being quick and agile as hell. There were never any inappropriate thoughts because they were part of the team, and therefore family. They made us better and if we slacked with them, then we'd pay. One of them had a Taiotoshi that was so brutal that after 5 of them you were too sore to think about getting booty 5 hours later when you got home.

Basically the moral is, don't mix business (MA) and pleasure when it comes to your team, club, or dojo. If shit goes south, then you've ruined the training enviroment for everyone else.
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solid post, some of my mates who were in the Swedish army had girls in their platoons and they even showerd with them, they said it was weird for like a week, then they became like sisters

My mate was one of the guys who chased some punks out of a bar and continued to chase them for several miles out of town when a guy harassed one of the girls at a bar
 
submissiongirl said:
You're sick. But this information is informative if it's true.
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you didnt know guys can get chubby's when rolling with a girl?? Think about this, you start feeling a bit horny, nothing really happens that is noticable, guy gets a little horny, their pecker wakes up. He's not sick by the way, he is NORMAL. Most guys will think of sex at least a little bit when in positions like that with a girl for a few reasons that they dont think about sex with guys in the same position

1) they are not gay

2) you usually arent trying hard against a girl, thus your mind can tend to wander
 
Soid said:
I find girls who roll unattractive. Even the "hawt" girls of bjj aren't exactly pretty.
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maybe not at your club...I have seen some SEXY girls in my bjj class, and they look even sexier when they are in regular clothes after class
 
Try: a jock strap, CUP, jockeys over that, then gi (or shorts).

If it happens again, whisper in her ear that you love her.
 
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