The thing is that I don't care if masculinity is demonized or not. It may be in some segments of society, but in others, it is not. To those that demonize it, I simply pay them no mind. At work, my value is based on my organizational leadership skills and being a steely-eyed killer. Literally, a hunter of men. Femininity is shunned in every sense of the word. In my personal life, women have told me that they appreciate the fact that I am a "man's man." The kind of women who prefer the skinny jeans-wearing emotional types are not interested in me at all, and that's cool by me. I'm the guy who wears leather cowboy boots with his jeans and drinks dark beer. There's no shortage of girls that are looking for something like that.
I don't know if I buy the fact that men are banished under false claims of domestic abuse. Maybe that's true, but I'd want to see the numbers before I accept that as truth. And I get that child support sucks. I just have no idea how to fix that problem. I'd need some help from a lawyer or someone who writes legislation.
I think the issue that you're taking goes much further than women and their behavior. I think that we live in a society where no one wants to face the repercussions of their actions. It pertains to everyone equally. If someone is too stupid or lazy to collect all the information that they need to make informed decisions in their life, then that's on them. Want to have kids? Find a way to pay for them. Are you still poor while working two jobs? You clearly missed the boat on education, and now you're reaping the rewards. A job in retail that doesn't even require a college degree can be enough to pay the bills. If it doesn't, it's your job to figure out how to cut costs. Lose the iPhone, turn off the cable, stop drinking Starbucks, and make your own meals instead of eating fast food. I don't know about you, but I am held accountable at work for everything that happens or fails to happen in my purview. If one of my guys were to lose a pair of night vision goggles because they weren't tied down to his helmet, I will be held responsible for not checking his gear. If the guy who manages my property and the books to track our equipment ordering/spending, it doesn't matter that he messed up. When he brought that memo in for me to sign, if I don't double-check his work and sign the memo, that instantly became my problem to deal with. Hell, if I am training some indigenous personnel, trying to gain their trust, I am still responsible for everything that happens. Let me hit you with a great example. We were training some dudes, looking to go on an ambush with them so that they could see that the Americans were there to fight with them. One of the indigenous guys hops up and says he knows when an enemy convoy would be passing through. Cool, we have something to shoot with our new friends to help win the war. Fortunately, we really looked into what this enemy convoy was. It turns that the indigenous guy owned his own business, and the "enemy convoy" that was coming through was one of his competitors. He just wanted us to take them out for him. Had we shot up a bunch of innocent people, the whole village would have been pissed at us, never trusted us again, and we would have had to leave. Complete mission failure. Just because that guy lied to me doesn't mean that it would have been any less my fault. Each of us is responsible for EVERY decision that we make ALL of the time. We, as a society, have lost our sense of accountability. This problem has permeated into every segment of our lives, and the legal system reinforces it. Look no further than drugs and alcohol. If you kill someone while you are impaired, you are LESS likely to be punished to the full extent of the law than someone who was stone-cold sober. Why? Because you were impaired, so you weren't of your best judgment when you did it. If you hurt someone under that condition, then YOU made the decision to drink or get high. YOUR choice had cascading consequences, and YOU are responsible for them.
As for making a sport of getting with women, I get it. But going back to my point about accountability, had I gotten one of those girl pregnant, that would have been MY problem to deal with. Any STDs that I could have contracted would have been my fault, and any angry/jaded/whatever lover that came after me would have been a product of my actions. Had one of those girls secretly had a boyfriend or husband that wanted to come after me, I acknowledge that my actions resulted in the situation. Of course, in all those scenarios, the hypothetical woman in question would have had a role and blame. However, just because she should be held responsible too doesn't mean that I should be held responsible any less. Had one of them gotten pregnant, I would certainly not be able to say, "Well, I used a condom, so I did my part. She should have been on birth control to prevent this from happening, so it's her fault." When we decided to have sex, anything that happens is the fault of both of us, regardless of information possessed at the moment of the decision.
Meh, it's PC culture. We are all responsible for it in some way because we tolerate it. We let the thin-skinned whiners of the world speak for others, throwing around terms like racist, sexist, or whatever else is cool today. That's the appeal of your boy, The Donald. He doesn't tolerate PC culture at all, and there are a lot of people who appreciate that. If PC culture diminishes because of this election cycle, then the people have spoken. We get the standard that we accept.