Would you have a problem with your wife clubbing?

[Bay Area]

To those married, would you be ok with your wife clubbing or hitting bars at night? Let's say if she is hanging out with her girlfriends for a night of dancing in the clubs, and later the bars, and let's she does this frequently. Lets say that she usually doesn't get home until 3-4 AM. Let's also assume you have kids.

To those not married, assume that you are.

 

[WrestlinganJudo]

I wouldn't marry someone that drank very much so yes.

 

[Organic Damage]

As long as she doesn't drive to the club sitting on some guy's lap...

 

[Big L]

To those married, would you be ok with your wife clubbing or hitting bars at night? Let's say if she is hanging out with her girlfriends for a night of dancing in the clubs, and later the bars, and let's she does this frequently. Lets say that she usually doesn't get home until 3-4 AM. Let's also assume you have kids.

To those not married, assume that you are.

How old are we in this situation? If we are over 30 than its a little weird just because as we all know, we can't have a bunch of old, pregnant bitches up in the club. I don't mean old for the earth, I mean too old for this club.

 

[TCE]

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

Trust is key in a relationship/marriage. If there's no trust, then what's the point?

It would bother me if she regularly did it, because as you said, we have kids to look after.

 

[SirKratos]

 

[DaDamn]

how frequently? once or twice a month would be fine. of coarse I would still go out any damn time I please.

 

[sub_thug]

It's about frequency. The occasional bachelorette party or girls' night out is totally cool, have fun. If this is an every weekend thing, then I'd have to wonder what her priorities really are.

 

[Gref]

in before cuck

 

[trolololol]

If it's once or twice a month and I get my own guys night out in return, sure.

But I don't want kids, and I wouldn't marry a party animal.

 

[Oblivian]

A night out until 4 AM is going to fuck up the next day so bad that it would be me taking care of everything with the kids Saturday night and then most of Sunday.

 

[Strange King]

Yes. It shouldn't be ok. If your girl is going out to the club the odds are she's fucking someone else. Single guys are there on the prowl. Add alcohol to that equation and bad shit happens. Not to mention if she dances with a guy. This is not the 50s where 2 people can dance. Girls aRe grinding there ass against another man's dick.

Everything about a club says no. If your girl is doing this without you all the time you might have already lost her

 

[SirKratos]

It's about frequency. The occasional bachelorette party or girls' night out is totally cool, have fun. If this is an every weekend thing, then I'd have to wonder what her priorities really are.

The frequency is not the only problem for you tho

 

[IIIIIIII]

It's about frequency. The occasional bachelorette party or girls' night out is totally cool, have fun. If this is an every weekend thing, then I'd have to wonder what her priorities really are.

careful with the bachelorette parties. i had a girl-friend who confessed to me that she cheated on her husband with one of those male dancers when she was visiting her friend who was getting married. she was crying and everything. and i knew her husband, who was a good guy. i don't really know why she told me. i guess to possibly gain sympathy from me and hope i would tell her it's okay. i told her she fucked up big-time. i think they're still together. not really sure.

 

[MMouse]

well clubs are intended for singles and people hooking up so unless I'm a swinger or in a open relationship sure why not but that go's against my marriage values so I would not be cool with it.

 

[MMouse]

careful with the bachelorette parties. i had a girl-friend who confessed to me that she cheated on her husband with one of those male dancers when she was visiting her friend who was getting married. she was crying and everything. and i knew her husband, who was a good guy. i don't really know why she told me. i guess to possibly gain sympathy from me and hope i would tell her it's okay. i told her she fucked up big-time. i think they're still together. not really sure.

eh it go's both ways. really question the value of marriage these days

This ideal of engaged, bridal shower/stag, bachelorette/bachelor is all sheep and waste of money for the most part.

Who woulda thought you need all that time and money just to committ to someone

 

[IIIIIIII]

eh it go's both ways. really question the value of marriage these days

This ideal of engaged, bridal shower/stag, bachelorette/bachelor is all sheep and waste of money for the most part.

Who woulda thought you need all that time and money just to committ to someone

i'm with you there, as far as those things being a waste of money. i really hope that marriage retains importance to people. if people are being born in unstable families, or without a mother and father around, people are going to be mentally unhealthy. and that is bad for everyone in society.

 

[Bay Area]

I would have a serious problem with it. Bar and club time is over once you get married, and especially have kids. My wife and I are home by 8pm.

 

[HelloJapan]

Sure, I love banging married bitches at the club.

 

[MMouse]

i'm with you there, as far as those things being a waste of money. i really hope that marriage retains importance to people. if people are being born in unstable families, or without a mother and father around, people are going to be mentally unhealthy. and that is bad for everyone in society.

It's pretty rare to find couples that hold that value and importance. I’ve known couples who stayed together and raised a family and are still together without even getting married and doing all that mumbo jumbo stuff.