Would you ever raise another man's child?
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Yeah. They use to do orgies too. Some African tribes ate babies. Are you advocating this too?
Women are allocating the pussy in a one way flow during peak SMV.
The same dudes raising these babies were ducked and dodged by these same women until they needed money. No self respecting man plays into this shit.
Not real life. There is a growing notion; if 100 men and women were on a deserted island, the top 20 men would fuck 80% of women.
Women are again, gatekeeper of sex.
She can choose to take contraceptive or not. She can lie and she can collect his resources and daddy government.
The divorce stats, the cuckoldry, court systems, the promo and abundance of single moms, women just skiing down cawk mountain. Its not until the free ride of alphas stop coming that these women fallback on betas and cucks.
I agree. It is a two way streak. Men need to man up and pandering to female entitlement or pandering to women as her plan Z when all other options fall through.
The truth is that, she never wanted the cuck who raises her babies. She wanted her bad boy and spent her youth skiing through cum shots and gang bangs. BBC three ways.
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Trust me i am the biggest advocate for nuclear families and more traditional family values. Perhaps my views are more rosy because i come from a more traditional culture and have a more traditional wife than what you might have to deal with. However, i've seen a lot of irresponsible men as well so its not a black and white picture for me. Men nowadays want a wife from the 50's but they also want her to make a 6 figure salary. A typical wife from the 50's was a housewife thus she was more financially tied to her husband than say a wife from today who is making a good living. Money plays a large role in how we humans live and the egos we have.
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I think we can all agree 'Steven Seagold' and 'bigbangspiritbomb' have possibly (probably) never been laid, and most certainly never had a meaningful long-term relationship (at least with a female).
You can't choose who you fall in love with... that's what makes it the real deal. I'm not advocating the welfare state or single-mom whores, especially with kids from multiple fathers. Operative word being whore.
Nobody is telling you to chase single mothers here. Nobody is telling you to raises anybody's kid. It all depends on the circumstances. Leftism is a mental disorder, at least the 'modern' left. I despise abortion, big government, a welfare state, and all the rest of the politically-correct bullshit that goes with it.
But with respect to the subject at hand, it varies wildly in circumstance.
Here's a hypothetical - you're in your mid 30's and haven't met 'the one' yet, but you fall in love with a woman whose marriage fell apart after a decade and has a 10-year-old boy with no father figure (custody battles, bitter divorce, ect). A big plus can be you get to see how the kid behaves. If he's a little shit, you know what to expect from the mom. That gives you a chance to assess your future potential offspring and decide if that is the right path to take with her.
But if the kid is bright-eyed, smart, and obedient (well-raised so far); and wants to emulate you and listen to all your 'cool stories' you're going to turn down a chance to be a positive influence, especially a strong male influence on a developing young boy who surely needs it?
If you say yes, you'd leave the woman you love because of that?
If you leave... well you're not the type of man that needs to impose any values on children anyway.
And if you say you'd stay, if the kid is obedient and smart - rethink your sweeping generalizations.
Not only do you have the chance to do justice for the kid and give them a long-overdue father figure, you can potentially give them some siblings, too.
One thing you need to understand - real men take responsibility. There should've been a father there in the first place. We can all probably agree on that. But life isn't perfect. It is a case by case basis... life is a little more complicated than you seem to understand.
You can't choose who you fall in love with... that's what makes it the real deal. I'm not advocating the welfare state or single-mom whores, especially with kids from multiple fathers. Operative word being whore.
Nobody is telling you to chase single mothers here. Nobody is telling you to raises anybody's kid. It all depends on the circumstances. Leftism is a mental disorder, at least the 'modern' left. I despise abortion, big government, a welfare state, and all the rest of the politically-correct bullshit that goes with it.
But with respect to the subject at hand, it varies wildly in circumstance.
Here's a hypothetical - you're in your mid 30's and haven't met 'the one' yet, but you fall in love with a woman whose marriage fell apart after a decade and has a 10-year-old boy with no father figure (custody battles, bitter divorce, ect). A big plus can be you get to see how the kid behaves. If he's a little shit, you know what to expect from the mom. That gives you a chance to assess your future potential offspring and decide if that is the right path to take with her.
But if the kid is bright-eyed, smart, and obedient (well-raised so far); and wants to emulate you and listen to all your 'cool stories' you're going to turn down a chance to be a positive influence, especially a strong male influence on a developing young boy who surely needs it?
If you say yes, you'd leave the woman you love because of that?
If you leave... well you're not the type of man that needs to impose any values on children anyway.
And if you say you'd stay, if the kid is obedient and smart - rethink your sweeping generalizations.
Not only do you have the chance to do justice for the kid and give them a long-overdue father figure, you can potentially give them some siblings, too.
One thing you need to understand - real men take responsibility. There should've been a father there in the first place. We can all probably agree on that. But life isn't perfect. It is a case by case basis... life is a little more complicated than you seem to understand.
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No lol, but who the fuck would trust me with their kid lmao.
I'd get a visit from child services for feeding the kid pigeon meat.
I'd get a visit from child services for feeding the kid pigeon meat.
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Seems like Asians shun the single mothers much more than Americans do. Is it that way in Korea, in general?
My first week in the Philippines, I was flirting with the cute receptionist at the hotel and asked if she had a boyfriend, and her response was, "No, I'm a single mother." Seemed like a weird response at the time, but I understand it now.
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Probably not, because I'm selfish as fuck other than when it comes to my own biological son. He wants for nothing, but the love and affection he gets is about all an asshole like myself can muster.
As far I'm concerned though, stepping up and raising a kid that would otherwise lack a father is some real man shit.
One of my friends and his wife raise a kid whose mother passed away from an overdose and the father is locked up and wants nothing to do with her anyway. They took her in as a baby, and raise her along with their biological kids as if she were their own daughter.
Dude is about as manly a man as men come imo.
As far I'm concerned though, stepping up and raising a kid that would otherwise lack a father is some real man shit.
One of my friends and his wife raise a kid whose mother passed away from an overdose and the father is locked up and wants nothing to do with her anyway. They took her in as a baby, and raise her along with their biological kids as if she were their own daughter.
Dude is about as manly a man as men come imo.
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I'm afraid to answer because it might invite a certain poster to flood this thread with her expertise in all things asian. But yes.
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Honestly, I couldn't. I'm also old enough to know that there will be other women.
I forgave a lot of what my asshole did stepfather because I could never raise another man's son.
I forgave a lot of what my asshole did stepfather because I could never raise another man's son.
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I did it with a 4 year old girl that wasn't mine for a few years. The father was no longer in the picture and the mother was super hot. It definitely sets an entirely different tone for the relationship, but it's not bad. You just have to realize and accept that the mother is looking for someone who will love her child and treat it with the love it deserves. The relationship didn't work out for other reasons, but I was fine with it while it lasted.
Children are innocent. If you're not willing to do what needs to be done for a child, then don't get into the relationship. It doesn't make you a bad person for not wanting that extra baggage with a significant other.
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Depends on the situation
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Today's men finally decided to apply porn philosophy into their real lives and relabeled it as, "Alpha as fuck". Back in the 80's it was "acting casual", and in the 70's it was "being Macho". There will always be men unwilling to accept responsibility beyond their own personal needs. That's just life.
One thing I've seen over the years is that the ability to sustain this lifestyle diminishes over time. Most fall in line eventually. Those that don't switch from free play, to pay as you go. Very few Leonardos and Clooneys out there in the wild, and even less with their kind of money.
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lol. imagine raising that kid, changing his diapers, buying him clothes, feeding him, taking him to school, caring for him all the way until he grows up enough to learn to say "YOUR NOT MY DAD!", "YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!" and then punches your lights out. there's plenty of people out there who are willing to raise another man's kid, just not me. i have a beta-assed cousin who takes care of his ex wife's kids. she doesn't give him sex and just uses him. drops off her kid at his place, while she goes out w/other guys. she stays at his place when her boyfriends kick her out and she has no place to go. she just recently had another kid w/another man and he's taking care that one too. i congratulated him on his new kid. LOL. yeah i know,prettty sad and pathetic.
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I already do. My nieces and nephews would be complete fuck-ups without me.
Now they're only semi-screwed.
Now they're only semi-screwed.
