Would you ever raise another man's child?

[Andersons Foot]

Two of my closest friends are doing it now. They both started dating their gf's when the kids were about 1. One of the relationships is working out fine and the other one not so much.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

Yup. Red pilled to the max. Just like me.

+ 1

I don't identify with the red pill/PUA/Manosphere but, I am sure as fuck aware.

Its simple. You or I; no man with options ever dates a single mom.



Here is another vid in response to: Why it rocks to be a single mum

https://www.netmums.com/support/why-it-rocks-to-be-a-single-mum

Its on average a half trillion expense due to single moms.

The single mothers are the welfare state.


You cannot be a good professional and mother. You are in one place or the other so, in all likelihood, you are bad at work and as a parent.

These stupid fucking narratives are promoted to the cucks and those that follow the beaten path.

You sir are a free thinker but, imagine if you were like 99% of beta male/cucks and guys with low testosterone.

Every time you hear about a single mom, you expect someone to bust out a violin and play a little tune along side her pity tangent.

Close your legs. I know enough that are absolute whores.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

Two of my closest friends are doing it now. They both started dating their gf's when the kids were about 1. One of the relationships is working out fine and the other one not so much.

No kidding. I know what you are saying but, its not a simple matter of it going 50/50. In all probability, the house always wins at the casino. For the odd winner, he/she is the anomaly. The same goes for the successful candidate but, a man who spent years deprived and flaked on jumps on this grenade. When she had no kids, she was fair game but she wanted her bad boys. He is now cleaning up her mess.

Dude should get his testosterone checked.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

I am not against adoption at all. I think it's a great way for people to try and help.

If my brother and his wife both died in a car wreck, I would consider raising his his children, unless they have already made other arrangements.

I would not ever become a step-dad.

These are freak incidents. Also, women without a husband is a WIDOW not single mom. Single mom is the welfare state + reeks of victimhood and stupidity.

 

[Rav1nHunter]

@Kardashians for female opinion please.

In all honesty I would never raise another dude's kid. To me, it's all about blood. I would raise my brother's kids if he and spouse were to die, because there's genetic connection there. Outside of a scenario like that, I don't think I would. I'm a savage old school type. If it ain't my uce I ain't playing.

It makes a man look bad if he raises another man's kid.

This is just some of the shit you have posted lately you don't get to call yourself a Savage old school type

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[FightsFTW]

Would have to really love the girl I'm with and the kid not be a total little bitch.

Assuming you're asking about raising the kid of a girl you are dating or whatever, not unfortunate circumstances like having to raise the children of a loved one because of a tragedy. In which case of course I would.

 

[Gutter Chris]

Says the dude who got married at 35 which is the start of a dude's peak SMV.

I been with same girl 19 years I didnt just get hitched .

 

[hbdope]

Fuck no. Single mom's who are single by choice (not widowed or raped) aren't exactly the type of women I'd get along with anyways.

 

[aldeniro78]

Old School = By Blood. Kings and queens, pharaohs, etc.

We must dismantle the topic at hand.

As we know, one part nature, one part nurture.

The concept of "Fatherhood" has a biological, undeniable reality imperative. As well as a sociological man made construction.

A "Father" in the most primal definitions is simply the genetic progenitor from which one came from. Scientific. Undeniable. Truth.

The sociological concept of a "Father" is complex and subjectively meta-physical. What value does the objectivity of a "Father" have if it can change from one individual to another depending on how the offspring (male or female) feels.

Now that I've really thought about this, I don't really care whether my belief is "Alpha" or "Beta", as my OP might suggest. Perhaps I threw that out as a bit of bait to get the ball of discussion rolling. I am not phased by the judgement of my belief. My belief.

We all value this differently. The concept of parents and fathers. Some value the sociological aspect more. Some value the procreative, scientific side.

My belief is extreme. The only father is one that is biological. This does not mean you can't support and help. But in my belief, you are not the offspring's father. You can try and spin it with fine print, but at the end of the day only a man and a woman can create life. Singular. One individual. One father.

Jesus, that's a lot of words to prove you're a goddamn moron.

Any idiot can create a child, but it takes a man to raise one. Being a sperm donor does not equal being a father.

I see a lot of guys shitting on the idea of raising someone else's kids who in fact will probably become stepfathers in the future.

 

[hbdope]

Jesus, that's a lot of words to prove you're a goddamn moron.

Any idiot can create a child, but it takes a man to raise one. Being a sperm donor does not equal being a father.

I see a lot of guys shitting on the idea of raising someone else's kids who in fact will probably become stepfathers in the future.

Indeed. Any idiot can create a child just like any idiot can stick his dick into that single mom. Poor decision, bad screening on her part but lets not say anything about her poor life decisions and talk about the guy who stuck his dick in her and failed to pull out or use protection lol.

 

[steve38]

Its simple. You or I; no man with options ever dates a single mom.

That's much too absolute of a statement. There's nothing wrong with just DATING a single mom, and I really don't see anything wrong with a single father marrying a single mother. As long as every other aspect of the relationship is tight and there's no issue with the kids.

Having said that, if I ended up as a single father, I still wouldn't subject myself to raising someone else's kid. But other's might...and that doesn't mean they have no other options.

 

[indo80]

so many people on here are making arguments about biology and nature to make their case but if this world was left to nature alone i wonder how many would survive it. I am not going to lie and state i would seek a woman with children as i would not but if someone exceptional came i would give her a chance especially if i have children of my own. In my 20's i would have said no way but in my 30's i would think about it.

 

[FyrFytr998]

Funny, i consider myself old school in that nearing my 40s I've seen and experienced more failures of blood relationships than I care to recount.

"Blood" is an excuse to not account for ones actions, to assume all disloyalty will be forgiven because "blood" to assume unwavering love and loyalty no matter how heinious the crime.

I'm old school in the fact I believe things should be earned and affirmed through deeds not by accident of birth.

Don't even bother. A lot of these dudebros have zero knowledge of what a solid marriage/relationship is.

So if all you naysayers were the sons of a single mom, and she met and fell in love with someone that basically ignored your existence. You'd all be good with it, no harm no foul since they aren't your real dad?

Don't care how tough you think you are. It would affect you.

 

[Mike]

Indeed. Any idiot can create a child just like any idiot can stick his dick into that single mom. Poor decision, bad screening on her part but lets not say anything about her poor life decisions and talk about the guy who stuck his dick in her and failed to pull out or use protection lol.

Seems unfair to assume every single mom is in that spot because she's a terrible person, but that's the go to response for a lot of people itt.

 

[aldeniro78]

Indeed. Any idiot can create a child just like any idiot can stick his dick into that single mom. Poor decision, bad screening on her part but lets not say anything about her poor life decisions and talk about the guy who stuck his dick in her and failed to pull out or use protection lol.

Good thing we have people like you who never make mistakes.

 

[Mike]

Don't even bother. A lot of these dudebros have zero knowledge of what a solid marriage/relationship is.

So if all you naysayers were the sons of a single mom, and she met and fell in love with someone that basically ignored your existence. You'd all be good with it, no harm no foul sinc ethey aren't your real dad?

Don't care how tough you think you are. It would affect you.

Lol that's what my stepdad is like. Not mean or anything, but it's like he decided if he ignored me long enough maybe I would just vanish. They got together when I was like 16 so I certainly didn't expect him to try to be my dad or anything, but being treated like you don't exist is so hilariously rude.

 

[Alphafail]

Don't even bother. A lot of these dudebros have zero knowledge of what a solid marriage/relationship is.

So if all you naysayers were the sons of a single mom, and she met and fell in love with someone that basically ignored your existence. You'd all be good with it, no harm no foul since they aren't your real dad?

Don't care how tough you think you are. It would affect you.

That's my impression as well. A lot of people here sound like edgy teenagers who have no idea what real life is like.

 

[Mike]

That's my impression as well. A lot of people here sound like edgy teenagers who have no idea what real life is like.

It's puzzling how many seem so concerned about the perception of others, or *gasp* feeling some level of emotional connection to another human being! The horror! How can everything ALWAYS be about me if I care for other people!

 

[squeezewax]

Of course i would, why not?
Some here are immature and think it's some kind of dent on their manhood, where do they get these childish ideas?

 

[indo80]

Never once considered marrying a single mom and raising some other guy's kid, but kudos to those who have the capacity for that.

I did date a couple MILF's but only because they were smoking hot and way out of my league had they been childless. The break-ups were always tough with those, so I eventually gave that up practice. I was always nice to the kids, but inevitably the girl would tell me afterwards that the kids hated me... lol

lol, that's the thing, i have kids of my own and when i discipline them they know i love them so they dont take it to heart. However, i wonder if the kids from another man would give you that leeway, certainly makes it way more complicated.