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Shit man.. that's a dark relationship to a dad.. good luck!
Man if I ever took the time to type out the whole story you guys would be amazed at how fucked up and tragic it was.Shit man.. that's a dark relationship to a dad.. good luck!
No. He never made any of those preparations ahead of time. He collapsed and was taken to the hospital unconscious, and just never woke up.Question, @Fedorgasm
Did anyone have power of attorney over his assets? Or was he of sound mind when he passed?
Dad died yesterday. Had no will, so his house and his $2,000 in the bank is all he had and I think that means it will go to probate court and likely be evenly distributed among me and my siblings.
But here's the question. I have his atm card and I know his pin. The bank doesn't know he's dead yet. I could theoretically go take that money out and use it to pay for some of the funeral expenses.
I'm kinda pissed at him for not making any arrangements ahead of time and leaving me to figure all this out and pay for the entire funeral out of my own pocket. I'd been reminding him to take care of this shit for years now and he didn't. He knew he didn't have long. So I feel like any money he has left should go towards his funeral.
2k is not enough, I'm still going to be on the hook for the rest, but it would help.
Anyhoo, I feel like even though I may have valid justification, that this might be illegal and get me into trouble.
@Law Talkin’ Guy
Dad died yesterday. Had no will, so his house and his $2,000 in the bank is all he had and I think that means it will go to probate court and likely be evenly distributed among me and my siblings.
But here's the question. I have his atm card and I know his pin. The bank doesn't know he's dead yet. I could theoretically go take that money out and use it to pay for some of the funeral expenses.
I'm kinda pissed at him for not making any arrangements ahead of time and leaving me to figure all this out and pay for the entire funeral out of my own pocket. I'd been reminding him to take care of this shit for years now and he didn't. He knew he didn't have long. So I feel like any money he has left should go towards his funeral.
2k is not enough, I'm still going to be on the hook for the rest, but it would help.
Anyhoo, I feel like even though I may have valid justification, that this might be illegal and get me into trouble.
@Law Talkin’ Guy
Ahhh man, sorry. Leave the money where it is, posthumous you could get into trouble.No. He never made any of those preparations ahead of time. He collapsed and was taken to the hospital unconscious, and just never woke up.
Dad died yesterday. Had no will, so his house and his $2,000 in the bank is all he had and I think that means it will go to probate court and likely be evenly distributed among me and my siblings.
But here's the question. I have his atm card and I know his pin. The bank doesn't know he's dead yet. I could theoretically go take that money out and use it to pay for some of the funeral expenses.
I'm kinda pissed at him for not making any arrangements ahead of time and leaving me to figure all this out and pay for the entire funeral out of my own pocket. I'd been reminding him to take care of this shit for years now and he didn't. He knew he didn't have long. So I feel like any money he has left should go towards his funeral.
2k is not enough, I'm still going to be on the hook for the rest, but it would help.
Anyhoo, I feel like even though I may have valid justification, that this might be illegal and get me into trouble.
@Law Talkin’ Guy
Also, just discuss it with your siblings. If everyone is OK with it @Fedorgasm then proceed. This isn’t something you would go to jail for, but it is something you would get sued for by one of the beneficiaries.
Brian laundry is that youDad died yesterday. Had no will, so his house and his $2,000 in the bank is all he had and I think that means it will go to probate court and likely be evenly distributed among me and my siblings.
But here's the question. I have his atm card and I know his pin. The bank doesn't know he's dead yet. I could theoretically go take that money out and use it to pay for some of the funeral expenses.
I'm kinda pissed at him for not making any arrangements ahead of time and leaving me to figure all this out and pay for the entire funeral out of my own pocket. I'd been reminding him to take care of this shit for years now and he didn't. He knew he didn't have long. So I feel like any money he has left should go towards his funeral.
2k is not enough, I'm still going to be on the hook for the rest, but it would help.
Anyhoo, I feel like even though I may have valid justification, that this might be illegal and get me into trouble.
@Law Talkin’ Guy