Why Will Men Always Try to Hit on the Bartender?

[Sonny Qc]

I had a friend whos daughter could make some very nice tips flirting with the guys hitting on her at the restaurant.

... Pic?

and yes, joking aside, they can make a lot of money.
Got a guy friend who bartend when he was studying to become a lawyer.
He was only working on the weekend and made as much money as us who already had full time job.

 

[ricc505]

Speak for yourself, I’ve clapped a bunch of waitresses and bartenders in oilfield towns. I also wasn’t a middle age dad when I did that though. Maybe it worked for them back in the day and they just kept at it.

I remember all the guys on our site ogling one chick that worked at Boston pizza, myself included. She had big titties, an absolute dump truck and was like a 9 on first appearances. Somehow I managed to do it and.. yeah very disappointed.

She kind of smelled, her apartment was disgusting and her car was just as bad. She was dirty as hell and it was a massive turnoff. Plus she got really possessive with me even though we weren’t dating and I literally flew home on days off.

You can put it on a pedestal and make a fool of yourself chasing it but remember, there’s always some dude that had it and didn’t want it anymore or some dude who is sick of her. Act like a gentlemen first, not a disgusting creep. If they want you, you’ll know. Most are just flirting to do their job.

I would hang out after hours in the bar and drink for free. Bartender was a stripper and bartended on her off nights. I'd flip a few stools and "I offered to walk her to her car" the first time.

I'd also get some package goods to go and hang out with my friend after closing. Meet her after work, free drinks and a casual relationship was great.

I flirted with every good looking female bartender up to my DUI. Not going to nail them all, but it feels good to have a nice chat, just need to realize most are just nice for the tip. Now I'm married. Saw one of my old bartenders at baby time at the library....

 

[Jesus X]

Waitresses might work but bartenders are like strippers they know how to fence with a man verbally they already know all your tricks before you use them.

 

[MDoza]

There were two guys at the family Mexican restaurant earlier hitting on the female bartender that was half their age. As a straight man it baffles me because there is just no statistical chance that they will get the desired result. I’ve never seen a guy hook up with a random bartender at any bar or club. Have you? It’s obviously not just talking because he could just do that with his friend. Why are men, especially older men, obsessed with this?

As you get older and recognize and accept that there is no chance, it’s kind of freeing and you can just flirt openly without the anxiety of whether or not it will lead to anything, or if the girl will take things the wrong way.

Bartenders are paid to conversate. Flirting back gets them tips. Typically all parties recognize that it’s just alcohol laden good fun.

 

[Versez]

Right!?!?
Like wtf ts?

And to answer TS question,
We hit on bartender because were I come from, they usually look like this.

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TS might be the gay.

Who paid that bottle of wine ?

also, sounds like QC broue to me.

 

[shunyata]

I feel attacked.

I thought of you first.

Like, why is bro callin out Sonny?

What'd he do?

 

[ThaiSexPills]

I would hang out after hours in the bar and drink for free. Bartender was a stripper and bartended on her off nights. I'd flip a few stools and "I offered to walk her to her car" the first time.

I'd also get some package goods to go and hang out with my friend after closing. Meet her after work, free drinks and a casual relationship was great.

I flirted with every good looking female bartender up to my DUI. Not going to nail them all, but it feels good to have a nice chat, just need to realize most are just nice for the tip. Now I'm married. Saw one of my old bartenders at baby time at the library....

You let a dui stop you? DUI’s are just a party tax brother, lawyer up. It’s our god given right to crush beers and drive!

(Just kidding. I learned my lesson too but my lawyer beat the case)

 

[HunterAcosta]

I think it's just human nature. Most men flirt with waitresses and bartenders when they're out drinking.

Why do guys give strippers roses and gifts when they do nothing with them outside the strip club? I use to have a neighbor who was a stripper and she would tell me stories about guys. She even would give me roses for my kitchen table because she was just going to throw them away.

You bang her?

 

[VulcanNervPinch]

There were two guys at the family Mexican restaurant earlier hitting on the female bartender that was half their age. As a straight man it baffles me because there is just no statistical chance that they will get the desired result. I’ve never seen a guy hook up with a random bartender at any bar or club. Have you?

 

[VulcanNervPinch]

Right!?!?
Like wtf ts?

were I come from, they usually look like this.

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I may have to take up drinking

 

[liner]

You let a dui stop you? DUI’s are just a party tax brother, lawyer up. It’s our god given right to crush beers and drive!

(Just kidding. I learned my lesson too but my lawyer beat the case)

A dui will cost you 10 grand. An Uber home is just 30 bucks.

But íf you drive home drunk and make it, you just saved $10,030!

 

[TheRash]

I’ve taken two bar tenders home in my 20’s.

Granted I was in incredible shape, and new to this small town, so these mid 20 girls probably just wanted a shot at the hot new comer (one literally told me that).

 

[ricc505]

You let a dui stop you? DUI’s are just a party tax brother, lawyer up. It’s our god given right to crush beers and drive!

(Just kidding. I learned my lesson too but my lawyer beat the case)

I rolled the dice for a long time, the odds just caught up with me. I'm also retarded and drank way to much at a super bowl party, hit a bar on the way home and got popped.

 

[Swamps]

 

[Kowboy On Sherdog]

If you don't take the shot , you miss 100% of the time

 

[Stoic1]

"Ex girlfriend called me to tell me our dog died today. I plan on getting shitfaced tonight. I don't have uber. Can you drive me home at the end of your shift?"

 

[Trabaho]

Cause bartenders are at work and gotta be poliet so you can talk to them and they sell you drinks and make money for themsleves and their bar / boss. So there is virtually no risk. Jugo(slav) bars always just hire beautiful woman who will have to endure everyone and they are basically there to attract guys to come and drink.
Men generally like talking to women.

 

[ThaiSexPills]

A dui will cost you 10 grand. An Uber home is just 30 bucks.

But íf you drive home drunk and make it, you just saved $10,030!

I wish we had Uber here. Uber has done more to stop drunk driving than roadside dui checkpoints have ever done.

 

[Spounman]

One of my friends would want to go to certain bars because "The bartenders are hot there".

He's a fuckin idiot.

Those guys exist! There was a party one night, I forget what it was for but the whole bar was dudes. And then I was sitting at a table with 3 of our bartenders, drinking before we went bar hopping somewhere because it was our night off from working at the bar. The three girls went to the restroom and one of the guys from the party came up and shook my hand and said you're the fucking man. Then it dawned on me why he walked over. I said nah, they're my friends we all work here. He says who cares, you're sitting with them, that makes you the fucking man.

 

[Tone C]

Those guys exist! There was a party one night, I forget what it was for but the whole bar was dudes. And then I was sitting at a table with 3 of our bartenders, drinking before we went bar hopping somewhere because it was our night off from working at the bar. The three girls went to the restroom and one of the guys from the party came up and shook my hand and said you're the fucking man. Then it dawned on me why he walked over. I said nah, they're my friends we all work here. He says who cares, you're sitting with them, that makes you the fucking man.

Are you Lou from Coyote Ugly....?