You're making a point that I think underscores the general problem with how people on the right approach these things. I'm not making this about you but your comment is a good place to start.

The burden of leadership is that you do the heavy lifting.
We can look back through all of history and part of the mantle of leadership meant taking on the financial and military burdens of your subordinates. The willingness and ability to do so is what gave someone the right to lead. The king (for lack of a better word) fielded the majority of the army. The king provided food for the homeless. Justice for the harmed. The king defended his vassal states from invasion.
When the king looks at the people and says "I don't want to lead armies to protect you. I don't want to find bread to feed you, etc.", he's done. Pack up go home. Someone else will be king. We have to be very careful here. Because being leader of the free world isn't about getting the most benefits. It also means shouldering the most responsibilities.
Once we start insisting that we don't want that burden, we are ending our run as leaders of the free world. And lots of great dynasties ended when a king came to power who wanted to have the wealth and prestige of being king but didn't want the responsibilities and burdens of being king.