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honestly it's a cycle, through poverty and prison time, that is really really hard to break and I'm not sure what the answers are.
Its a fact that 2/3 of all black children live in single parent households (I'm assuming the grandparents aren't being counted there, b/c no way that many single moms live by themselves); whether that's due to the dad just leaving or going to jail or god forbid dying or whatever, that's a major issue no matter how you look at it.
That then clearly results in less supervision, especially if the single parent is working/going to school to try and get by and not just mooch. No father figure in the house, maybe guys coming over to smash mom here and there hopefully giving some semblance of a adult male figure in the life, etc....
The problem becomes bringing this all up, without seeming like you're entirely scapegoating the current situation for Black people in the US, so that some from of constructive thinking can try and address some of these issues and not lead to the 'f em, it's their fault' or 'its not their fault at all' camps shining brightly.
We can say 'certain segments of society don't seem to value education or success legitimately' and that may be somewhat true in a sense, but that's also entirely related to the points above. Asians, who do have strong education values generally, tend ot have much more stable households in terms of parents/crime.
It's a tough issue man, and I'm not sure how it's going to change anytime soon. You can't address the issues of, per my man Fabolous,:
'and young n*****s read like they slow// but you give them a blunt, bet they roll the weed like a pro' and
'no Sesame Street, kids watch BET// look up to dudes that don't got a GED'
until you can at least somewhat stabilize the normal state of the black household
clearly the war on drugs needs to stop, as that appears to be the absolute number one factor in all this, at least IMO
This is a bit scattershot.
I cannot appreciate what it would be like to be a black man, because I'm white. It's easy to say: you should do something differently, but the fact remains there are guys like Beever arguing black men are genetically inferior in some way, which illustrates in a simple example the sorts of prejudices I will never face. I can't imagine how awful it would be to go to school and feel that's what your teacher, or your peers, or your administrators think of you. You don't have a fair shot, and everything becomes a contest to try and prove people wrong. When you're successful, you're patronized, and when you're not, it was a foregone conclusion in their eyes anyway. You can't win and the pressure must be fucking terrible.
Our legal system grossly discriminates against minorities in terms of arrest and sentencing rates for similar crimes. Our educational system sees school diverting their Pell Grant money, meant to bring more low-income kids to university, to cafeteria improvements for the wealthy students.
There are a ton of barriers in place against black Americans, and when a protest group rises up over the frequency of police shooting unarmed and/or young black men for trivial offences, they're shouted down with racial epithets, counter-slogans (All Lives Matter!) and veiled threats by a presidential candidate.
It's terrifying, frankly, and I can understand why there's so much resentment.