Was I right to get upset at this question?

[Ogata]

I am at the college libary and this girl sits right next to me, looks wise she is not bad and then she starts small talk in regards to what course Im taking and what have you.

So here I am, enjoying a conversation and like the fact that her nose is not in her cell phone like other chicks. But then she asks me, "Do you have a Job?" I kind of was like wtf!?? But I answered with a yes and she said "very good and do you make good money??"

Man I got so angry for some reason and I just said "Excuse me but I have to finish my essay"

i don't know,maybe I was overreacting but damn that pissed me off big time when she asked me about money without even asking for my first name in the first place.

With that being said, was it bad that a question like that bothered or is it normal to ask ppl questions about money/job as a form of conversation? I ask because I know have a bit of a distorted perception of things + I wasen't as social as I am trying to be so Im not sure if my reaction was over the top or valid?

 

[Grob]

Don't get angry, get uppercutty.

 

[Kirin]

Maybe she was just curious/looking for a job herself.
You got problems, ts.

 

[new_mexico1]

The job question is normal but it's usually phrased differently. "So what do yo do?" But it usually comes after knowing the person's name. lol

 

[Talent]

I agree that uppercuts were the course to take. Rude question.

 

[Dogstarman]

Should have just went with it to see how far you could have taken it.

 

[Cheese]

You are in the right. Its rude as shit to ask people/anyone how much they make or how much they paid for something.

 

[sancheesy]

seems a bit forward. I agree with new_mexico

 

[Blayt7hh]

Well that is pretty rude, but I probably wouldn't get angry. But it takes a lot to piss me off

 

[Nomos]

She was probably trying to recruit you for a different job like Amway or something. At least find out why the question is asked before getting mad.

 

[PolishHeadlock]

Lol TS is making shit money.

She was probably looking for a job.

 

[Ogata]

Maybe she was just curious/looking for a job herself.
You got problems, ts.

I admit that I get upset at petty things and I need to work on that but I thought that asking someone about their finanical status after knowing them for 10 minutes may mean that they are gold digger type characters.

Besides Im a person not a career fair.

The job question is normal but it's usually phrased differently. "So what do yo do?" But it usually comes after knowing the person's name. lol

I agree with you 100 percent! If she asked "so what do you do besides school" then that would lead me to tell her about work,hobbies and etc without the need to ask a question like that. Plus asking for my first name is also would have been nice too!

 

[Chesten_Hesten]

You missed a golden opportunity.


Tell her some crazy shit like:

Yes of course, enough to go to the Ah-Ha Spa three times a week. Helps me unwind for my studies.

Sometimes I get a table shower and a rub and tug, other times I take a Cialis, and pound ruby the Star prostitute, until she makes me stop. She say, "No no, you stay too long at Buffet, you break my pussy, you go now, you done!"

Then ask her if its really all about the money, and tell her you're lonely, and empty inside.

See if she get's uncomfortable.... gnome say'n?

 

[PolishHeadlock]

I admit that I get upset at petty things and I need to work on that but I thought that asking someone about their finanical status after knowing them for 10 minutes may mean that they are gold digger type characters.

Besides Im a person not a career fair.



I agree with you 100 percent! If she asked "so what do you do besides school" then that would lead me to tell her about work,hobbies and etc without the need to ask a question like that. Plus asking for my first name is also would have been nice too!

Yeah but she had no romantic interest in you.

 

[HunterIII]

She was trying to bang bro. You don' goofed.

 

[minute bull]

Smells like MLM.

And yeah you overreacted. Take it easy, TS. Life.

 

[Matt4786]

It's rude to ask somebody their salary.

 

[NJKid45]

A lot of homeless people congregate at the library maybe shes been burned before

 

[FwappyEnding]

Rude question? Yes. Worth getting mad at? No. Just move on.

 

[Rhood]

And then you say.....
Yes! I make ungodly amounts of money as a pimp, and I would love for another female specimen such as yourself to work for me full time.