My take is that the characters in these films illustrate a part of human nature we wish we could act out on but obviously can't. They're powerful, feared, lead exciting lives and will take vengeance as they see fit. I think many people would to find those in their lives they hate and enact violence, would love to do whatever they wanted and say whatever they wanted. It touches on something deep inside a lot of us that is thankfully suppressed for most people!
These films and shows present these characters, who are sociopaths, in humanized ways. They're funny, love their families, protective, ambitious, etc. despite being monsters. They have a code to keep them from being total maniacs and those who don't follow the code are off'd.
Yeah, I definitely get the human element, but I think that's actually ground down by the tropes of the genre that I touched on. Like I said with the Sopranos, I don't know how anyone (who isn't a meat-headed Italian American) can identify at all with any of the characters other than Tony. Like Paulie, et al just make me think of this:
Also, the only way I can synchronize the praise for Godfather II is on the same basis as the critical praise for Breaking Bad Season 5: critics getting up their own asses because of the critical notoriety of earlier work and not realizing the drop off in being ham-handed and telegraphing. I don't think Godfather Pt. II is nearly the drop-off that S5 was from S4, but it smacks of the same pretentious phenomenon.
Goodfellas, godfather 1 and 2, casino are classics.
I might get hate for this, but a Bronx Tale should get recognition as well...
I may be biased due to the whole interracial romance in it.
Other "gangster " films that should be ranked up with goodfellas are some of the mexican ones.
"Blood in blood out" is an epic film...
As is" American Me."
"American Gangster " started strong but fizzled out.
I like American Gangster more than all of those, again, because it was more human to me and less caricature-like. I also liked Mean Streets (Scorcese's first mob film), Road to Perdition, Pulp Fiction, Eastern Promises, and the original Godfather. I've never seen A Bronx Tale.
Those "mexican" ones - are they Spanish-language films I'm guessing?
I enjoyed Godfather, Goodfellas, and Casino a lot. Departed was overbilled but solid imo. Other than that, I like the mob to be more of a background element in the story, instead of the whole damn thing. Sopranos was way too much saturation for me.
I really don't remember Casino. Departed is easily the most overrated film that I've ever seen. Holy hell, what a pile of garbage. I really gave it a hefty handicap because I wanted to like it, on account of it being a mob film that I knew wouldn't be dowsed with Italian American stuff, but that had to be the most sterile, insincere, unmoving, and poorly acted "good" movies I've ever seen.