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Discussion in 'Mayberry Lounge' started by ScriptReadsMe, Feb 18, 2016.

  1. ScriptReadsMe Banned Banned

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    I've worked at this establishment for close to 5 months now and I fell in love with this chick. It turned out she was already taken so I completely gave up any hope of reaching out to her. A couple of months later I receive a phone text from an unknown number inviting me to a bar. It was her!

    She dug up my number from employee files (she's higher up in the hierarchy). We go out a couple of times. She even introduces me to her mom. At this point I feel obliged to inquire about her relationship with the boyfriend. She claims she's unhappy and believes the only reason why they're still together is fear of losing her entourage. She's very good friends with the guy's mother.

    Then come the suggestive pictures she sent me via SMS. I couldn't take it anymore and admitted I had strong feelings towards her. She didn't reciprocate though. The next day she calls me at 2:50 AM to invite me to a bar which was about to close. I was pissed and cut her off for a while. Shit is driving me nuts, what's going on?
     
  2. BisexualMMA Don't Put My Name in the Name of Steroids!

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    If you're talking about suggestive pictures, I'm guessing you haven't closed the deal yet in the sack...

    Inviting you to a bar 10 minutes before it closes? All you had to do was show up and the deal was done, brah.

    She may well have texted you at 2:50 because she was on the prowl for something else and didn't find it, but at worst you were her backup plan for the night.

    That's my take.
     
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  3. Jballer Red Belt

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    You should probably post those pics so we can have all the info before advising.
     
  4. RedRocket44 Brown Belt

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    Dude, she obviously wants you, or at least a reason to break up with him and try with you. Digging up your number could be something that got her in trouble at work.

    She's probably still dependent on this asshole for something, whether it be living arrangements, companionship/friendship, or just fear of being alone. The fact that she told you she wasn't happy is more than what most girls would do. No girl would open up that much to a guy they didn't have an interest in.
     
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  5. ScriptReadsMe Banned Banned

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    What would be the best approach then?
     
  6. RedRocket44 Brown Belt

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    Don't get pissed and cut her off?

    If you can accept she's with somebody until she sees you as the better option than just go with it.
     
  7. tripnastic Dudeist Priest

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    This all sounds well and good until you hit it and in the middle of the next argument she and her BF have she blurts out "Well I've been fucking ScriptReadsMe!!" and you have an angry dude at your house at 2:50 in the morning.

    Plus she's higher up? Man, this is a minefield. Don't shit where you eat, or where other people eat either.
     
  8. BisexualMMA Don't Put My Name in the Name of Steroids!

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    This is TS' chance to sleep his way to the top. Guy power.
     
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  9. tripnastic Dudeist Priest

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    Seriously, if he's gonna do this he better save EVERY TEXT to prove what was going on if she ever gets pissed and tries to nail him for sexual harassment. She's just already being so sketchy. Can't trust her.
     
  10. Michaelangelo Okay USA Platinum Member

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    Lol she's just using you

    You took it seriously and scared her off

    Should've played it cool and let it be. She isn't breaking up with the other guy.
     
  11. [email protected]&WW Gold Belt

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    umm... that's the definition of a booty call. i dont understand you
     
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  12. SpartanKhmy Purple Belt

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    Did you save the pic? Demand a raise or you post them on sherdog unknown babe thread...
     
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  13. Seano Hands of bone

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    You're "plan B" TS.
     
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    Lol at "admitted I have strong feelings for her". I'm sure that was an instant turnoff to her.
     
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  15. CatchOmega Hideous Disfigurement

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    She arguably broke the law by accessing your private information through her profession. I'm assuming she's not allowed to do that.

    If you can't leverage that into your favor and turn it into a romp in the old sack, you deserve a 6 month ban from sherdog.
     
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  16. rearnakedchoke Suck it!

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    The best thing to do is go to HR, tell them she used her position to seduce you and now you dont feel you can work at the same place ... They will get rid of her and you are guaranteed a job there as long as you want ...
     
  17. ralphc1 Steel Belt Platinum Member

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    Women want what they don't have. It's the thrill of the chase.
     
  18. BisexualMMA Don't Put My Name in the Name of Steroids!

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    Tell them she asked for anal for maximum effect.
     
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  19. rearnakedchoke Suck it!

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    If the roles were reversed, ts would be put on his ass and she would be getting promoted
     
  20. CardsLJ Bada Boom! Realest Guy In The Room! Banned

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    stopped reading after I've worked at this establishment for close to 5 months now and I fell in love with this chick.

    lesson #1 in life, you don't shit where you eat. and if youre going to dip your pen in the company ink, make sure its in a different department within the company that you dont habe any interactions with
     

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