News Tim Lane, Xtreme Couture coach found dead at 49

[spinup]

So awfully sad. RIP.
Xtreme Couture had it very rough recently, with the brutal passing of Kyle Reyes and now Tim Lane.

 

[chs140]

Mental health issues are real issues. Check on your friends and family. Be sincere in it too. People will just brush off those questions passively.

Head trauma also exacerbates depression and irrationality. Even grappling leads to head trauma. It's important to keep checking on yourself too while participating in these sports.
No idea if that was the case here but it should still be mentioned. I know a lot of people here grapple. Take head injuries seriously!
And as someone that's suffered with bouts of major depression, go talk to someone. Get it off your chest.
Horrible tragedy. RIP

 

[Substance Abuse]

So awfully sad. RIP.
Xtreme Couture had it very rough recently, with the brutal passing of Kyle Reyes and now Tim Lane.

They also lost Robert Follis as well. Sadly.

 

[flairleguccijoints]

tell me more.

i hope you don’t mean you would kill your self if you were broke or poor.

There’s more to life than money, dude. If money made people happy you wouldn’t have so many angry Americans with money and means relative to the rest of the world.

So strange. The guy had a good place to work, lots of friends and colleagues, and he looked healthy.

The brain is strange. You never know what some folks are going through and dealing with even if it looks like their life is set.

RIP Tim

”he looked healthy”
You can’t see mental illness or depression.

 

[Substance Abuse]

Head trauma also exacerbates depression and irrationality. Even grappling leads to head trauma. It's important to keep checking on yourself too while participating in these sports.
No idea if that was the case here but it should still be mentioned. I know a lot of people here grapple. Take head injuries seriously!
And as someone that's suffered with bouts of major depression, go talk to someone. Get it off your chest.
Horrible tragedy. RIP

Not only that, but as a man you're taught that it isn't okay to complain, seek help or question why you feel that way. If you do, you're perceived to be weak or a lesser than. Life is hard man. Real hard. Slow down and talk to somebody. As a man it's cumbersome to confide in people and open up. That's why I consistently tell people that if they need to talk, I'm here, and I won't even say a word. Sometimes it helps to just get the words out.

 

[gunlok]

He dedicated a large part of his life to transform lives of others and that's the most positive and noble way to live.

 

[xHeadx]

Sad story. RIP. Get help when needed. Life can be rough but it gets better. Tomorrow is a better day.

The last 6 years have been rough. Lost my best friend & his wife (killed by a drunk driver). 5 years ago I lost one of my sisters & my father 4 days apart. 3 years ago my best friend's cousin died of liver failure. 2 years ago a friend was killed by his wife's lover. We still haven't found his body. Last year I was diagnosed with cancer.

But I'm still living & breathing. I have a loving family & friends & overall life is good. I have days that I'm down, might even cry, but it always gets better. Hell, just typing all of that was hard but therapeutic. Keep your head up & find someone to talk to.

 

[Strychnine]

Rest In Peace man...

 

[Shoguns Prodigy**]

Rip to the man.

 

[AFewDollarsMore]

The saddest thing about suicide is you think ending your own pain will bring you peace but in reality it just transfers your pain to all your loved ones and friends.

for decades too

 

[USA!USA!]

”he looked healthy”
You can’t see mental illness or depression.

That is why I said the brain is strange. You never know what someone is going through.

 

[jeff7b9]

That sucks.

Suicide leaves an emotional atomic bomb for the family and friends to deal with.

I dated a girl in college who found her mother in the car with the gas running and had a friend from childhood who found his stepdad, I didn't ask the method but in each case the confusion, regret, sorrow, blame, etc that was left as a burden upon the surviving family members was both palpable and devastating.

Hope this guy didn't have kids or much family.

 

[jeff7b9]

RIP.

Could it have been CTE related?

I doubt you ever get an answer to that question but depression and mental health issues have been proven to be linked with brain trauma.

 

[Kthankss]

As someone whose lost both an Aunt and Uncle in the last 6 years to suicide - I’ve seen the damage this does to their entire family.

RIP.

 

[First Day UFC Intern]

Suicide is always sad, but imo it's to be prefered to not chosing your own time of death,

I know you have no bad intention in writing that,

but like David Foster Wallace once said, suicide is like trying to escape a building that is on fire,

you literally cannot withstand life and its issue that you rather 'off' yourself.

For suicidal and depressed person sometimes they tried to fight it off, and to fight suicidal ideation on your own is very hard.

In my view to avoid addictive behavior/substance and to be religious and close to nature, do help the mind, to have mental peace.

 

[asdf122345]

R.I.P

 

[Local Plata]

Feels like deju vu, didn't another fairly high profile coach just kill himself within the last few months too?

 

[Local Plata]

I know you have no bad intention in writing that,

but like David Foster Wallace once said, suicide is like trying to escape a building that is on fire,

you literally cannot withstand life and its issue that you rather 'off' yourself.

For suicidal and depressed person sometimes they tried to fight it off, and to fight suicidal ideation on your own is very hard.

In my view to avoid addictive behavior/substance and to be religious and close to nature, do help the mind, to have mental peace.

Religiousity does not seem to have much impact on whether a person is suicidal or not, although some studies have shown that it COULD be...I think most likely it is completely unrelated for the most part, aside from maybe a small subset of people who are depressed and suicidal, but don't actually commit suicide due to the fear of going to hell or something, which is just as unhealthy imo.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7310534/
Although religion is reported to be protective against suicide, (Suicide Prevention Resource Center 2003; Koenig 2009; Perlman, Neufeld et al. 2011), the empirical evidence is inconsistent, with some studies reporting it to be protective (Dervic, Oquendo et al. 2004), others finding it a risk factor(Zhao, Yang et al. 2012), and still others reporting it unrelated to suicide risk (Le, Nguyen et al. 2012).

 

[AB234]

When I die, I want it to be in the mountains surrounded by mother nature.

R.I.P. Brother

 

[First Day UFC Intern]

Religiousity does not seem to have much impact on whether a person is suicidal or not, although some studies have shown that it COULD be...I think most likely it is completely unrelated for the most part, aside from maybe a small subset of people who are depressed and suicidal, but don't actually commit suicide due to the fear of going to hell or something, which is just as unhealthy imo.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7310534/
Although religion is reported to be protective against suicide, (Suicide Prevention Resource Center 2003; Koenig 2009; Perlman, Neufeld et al. 2011), the empirical evidence is inconsistent, with some studies reporting it to be protective (Dervic, Oquendo et al. 2004), others finding it a risk factor(Zhao, Yang et al. 2012), and still others reporting it unrelated to suicide risk (Le, Nguyen et al. 2012).

I mean Islam, not necessarily all religion of course