Social Socialising.

[Takes Two To Tango]

WTF 16 months without social interactions?

I mean.. socializing is one of the most important things at life and probably the most enjoyable. What the actual fuck.

Sorry.. didn't wanted to be judgmental in my last post but seriously.. WTF.

Human connections are one of the most beautiful things in life. Being with old friends, family or just 2 minutes social interactions with the people that charge you on the store.

I don't find much meaning in my job but being there with the people I work with everyday is the best part of my day.

Guess I'm an extrovert and I love joking around. I wasn't always like that tho.

Have you heard of social phobia or social anxiety? It's a real thing and people tend to get it in different degrees. Not saying @fingercuffs has this problem, but it does sound like it something she may have.

 

[Tone C]

I've stayed in practice over the past few years.... Flirting with women lol. At Work, gym, etc.

Just don't tell my wife.

Oh , those weren't women.

 

[SalvadorAllende]

Have you heard of social phobia or social anxiety? It's a real thing and people tend to get it in different degrees. Not saying @fingercuffs has this problem, but it does sound like it something she may have.

Yeah I heard about it. Just happens to be that everybody and their grandma has it these days.

 

[fingercuffs]

Well that is good that you do not have your head buried in your phone. It is turning people into zombies. You just need to get out there and make friends in the world.

I've always been fine making friends. If I only stopped skipping town/state/country every five minutes I'd still be the social butterfly I have been before.

 

[TeTe]

Oh , those weren't women.

It's all up for debate these days.

 

[fingercuffs]

Sorry.. didn't wanted to be judgmental in my last post but seriously.. WTF.

Human connections are one of the most beautiful things in life. Being with old friends, family or just 2 minutes social interactions with the people that charge you on the store.

I don't find much meaning in my job but being there with the people I work with everyday is the best part of my day.

Guess I'm an extrovert and I love joking around. I wasn't always like that tho.

Did you miss the part of me not living in the same state or country as most of my "old" friends and only recently moving 6 hours away from my friends in NorCal?

 

[Takes Two To Tango]

Yeah I heard about it. Just happens to be that everybody and their grandma has it these days.

Well if she hasn't engaged in socializing for awhile, it's bound to happen. The anxiety.

It's like anything you haven't done in awhile, you lose your confidence in something you use to be good at. So the anxiety goes up for whatever function or whatever it is.

 

[Uber_Noober]

When we moved to Ridgcrest (near Norma and Upjohn), my wife was miserable. She hated that place, moving to Lancaster wasn’t much better early on, but she got a job and made some friends, and things improved after that.

Keep your chin up

 

[fingercuffs]

When we moved to Ridgcrest (near Norma and Upjohn), my wife was miserable. She hated that place, moving to Lancaster wasn’t much better early on, but she got a job and made some friends, and things improved after that.

Keep your chin up

I'm not even desperate to make friends, although I thought I would be when I moved here coming from a big city where I could text and a bunch of us would get together. But a year only hanging out with your other half I just didn't expect to feel like that. My last interview was worse, I had tears streaming down my face and husband asking me to not even go I was so bad and it was only a receptionist job at a hotel.

Must have been a relief for both of you if she's happier. And I'm a fuckload happier living here than I was in San Jose. I can actually sleep here.