i know a gay couple. two dudes that have been together since college, they're late forties now. i know them for more than 20 years. I've seen them go grey, grow fat, one is starting to go bald. one's a teacher, the other works at some engineering firm and they're some of the biggest dorks i know. they'd rather spend all their weekend at home playing videogames. they buy miniature aliens, terminators, predators, all sorts of geeky shit like that. you could talk to the teacher guy about history for a week straight and he'd love it, while the other one reads in his chair. they don't have that many friends and don't seem to care. i don't think they've ever been with somebody else. and sex talk never comes up, it's an experience that is between them and them alone. the only way you'd know they are together are slight moments of tenderness between them.
they're married, not in church, even though one of them, the engineer, is religious. he's the only one that goes to church. i can't imagine how that would feel like for a gay person.
quiet lives, bothering nobody. i don't think anyone should object to them being married.