If a police officer can hold a dangerous, violent suspect against the ground or wall and that dangerous, violent suspect can't get themselves into a better position to be dangerous and violent, who's at fault? Who's won the battle? Fighting, warfare, conflict, UFC, whatever you call it, isn't just about beating the other dude to a pulp, it's about who can implement a strategy to nullify the opposition into being helpless, surrendering and giving up and accepting that they have no way to achieve victory, knowing their wives may be raped, their villages pillaged and whatever else may come with a loss.
How about strategizing better to implement your game and not cry and ask for rule changes because you got exposed? And maybe don't be a cuck for Nina Drama while you have Ank wavin da Llama, Chama Bless