My state scammed me

[RockstarChris]

Can you still abort the child? there was a comedy sketch somewhere where someone wanted to abort their 20 year old son lol

 

[Drenalin]

Lol wut?

They'll take your $ and deposit into your account...

Gov't efficiency in a nutshell.

I'm not sure exactly how that works. Don't know if they'll direct deposit or send her a check. Either way I'm getting the money back. I just find it absolute bullshit that the government thinks they have any right to be involved here. Also I want other people to know that they shouldn't fall for the free paternity test trick.

 

[lifelessheap]

So when my baby was born my state offered me a free paternity test. I was already certain this was my baby, but I figured hey why not. It's free & it will shut up anyone who has doubt, given that the pregnancy situation was a mess. My girl lost her marbles when she became pregnant. Anyway I requested the free paternity test & obviously it was proven I'm the father.

Here's where the bullshit starts. Now my state is demanding I pay child support for my child that I'm already supporting. No one has ever even mentioned child support other than the state. And we aren't getting any government assistance at all. My girl has already said if they do force me to pay child support, she'll just give that money right back to me. Either way it's still fucked up that the government is forcing me to pay child support for my baby which I'm already supporting. Makes no sense.

Lesson learned. If your state offers you a free paternity test, tell them to fuck off. If you have any doubt, pay a private company to do the paternity test for you. Don't get scammed like I did. Now I'll have to hire an attorney & fight this in court. Big waste of time & money.

 

[Drenalin]

lol thanks. That shit made me want some cake though

 

[Eyepokesftw]

Get married. Problem solved.

 

[Ceez]

Do you live together?

 

[Drenalin]

Do you live together?

Well we each have our own places still, but pretty much one of us is always staying at the others place. We'll be getting a house together soon.

 

[Ceez]

Well we each have our own places still, but pretty much one of us is always staying at the others place. We'll be getting a house together soon.

Does any of her/your mail go to the same residence?

 

[Drenalin]

Does any of her/your mail go to the same residence?

Some of her mail comes to my place

 

[Ceez]

Some of her mail comes to my place

Take that with you when you go to see the social worker. Your girl can tell them that you're living together and that can be used as proof before you gusy ever really move in together. That should stop all the bullshit dead in it's tracks

 

[Drenalin]

Take that with you when you go to see the social worker. Your girl can tell them that you're living together and that can be used as proof before you gusy ever really move in together. That should stop all the bullshit dead in it's tracks

Not a bad idea. I think just the fact that I'm supporting my child & she doesn't want child support should be enough to keep the government out of our lives.

 

[Ceez]

Not a bad idea. I think just the fact that I'm supporting my child & she doesn't want child support should be enough to keep the government out of our lives.

You would think but once it hits the DA and the courts it turns into a completely different animal. It's not really a lie anyways if you all are really going to be shacking up soon. They like to see proof and a real reason.

 

[Phlog]

Point is the government has no fucking right here to control my money.

Well. They absolutely do, that's democracy and it doesn't matter to you anyway so why bother being bothered?

 

[Drenalin]

Well. They absolutely do, that's democracy and it doesn't matter to you anyway so why bother being bothered?

Well luckily for me I'm self employed & they can't control my money as much as they'd like too. I love it when I get cash jobs. They can't tax or take money they don't know about.

 

[Phlog]

Well luckily for me I'm self employed & they can't control my money as much as they'd like too. I love it when I get cash jobs. They can't tax or take money they don't know about.

Cash bro fist!

 

[Jack Reacheround]

Lol. It’s cuz u guys aren’t married and ur in a liberal state

What state are you in OP?

Missouri

Lol. "Everything bad that happens is because of liberals!"

 

[Drenalin]

Cash bro fist!

Yeah but unfortunately most of my work is on the books. I definitely put the tax jobs on hold when cash jobs come up. Fuck Uncle Sam

 

[Brampton_Boy]

 

[Dylanyousonofabitch]

If your not married then it doesn't matter. You have to be married

 

[Drenalin]

If your not married then it doesn't matter. You have to be married

So what you're saying is every father that isn't married to the mother of his child, has to pay child support?