Yeah, needy is right. It's a stereotypical male complaint but after feeling it for myself I know how draining and stressful it can be. How long have you been married?
It's called borderline personality disorder:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...3/welcome-the-new-blog-stop-walking-eggshells
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Basically what you said. Looks wise she's exactly what I want, petite, big brown eyes, amazing body, perfect lips. And the sex is amazing. When she's good we have a ton of fun together, always laughing and she's real fun and also caring and very supportive. My best friend like you said.
But she can turn on the drop of a hat and get super emotional and just crazy in general. Her mom is bipolar and she's scared that she is too so that's a real possibility in my situation. But I can't stay away from her haha. Tried breaking up once. So I don't have much advice for you I'm right where you are
hot + crazy = not worth the trouble imo. been there done that.
Haha, ahhh ... exactly. Epitomizes the can't live with her, can't live without her ... the good is so good, but the bad is really bad.
The other variable is that my GF is persian. She grew up in Iran so there is definitely some cultural baggage to work through. She is taking a chance by dating me (non muslim European) so it's possible that the jealously and insecurity is related to fear of losing face and feeling shamed if we were to break up rather than some kind of inherent personality flaw. My instinct is that it's just her personality but entangling all these variables is extremely complicated.
NHB, I appreciate your detailed posts. Thanks.
Step 1: Google Borderline Personality Disorder.
Step 2: ?????
Step 3: Pro... Ok, skip the profit and go straight to running the fuck away from this relationship. I'm telling you... It's only going to get worse. Oh, man. haha. Literally, if you don't leave her while the leaving is good, you're going to really, really regret it. Good luck, Bro.
Woah I feel like you just described my life man. I'm in the same exact situation. It's even 1.5 years for us too