Let's say I highlighted all your drunken mistakes. All the times you argued with your girl, yelled at your mom, talked shit over the internet, in real life.
It's very easy to paint someone as the villain.
But do you think all of the horrible things you've been involved with in your life define you?
No.
It's like saying that all the good moments where you've been a good friend, son, lifted up your family or community defines you.
People aren't just black and white.
They're all of those things combined and more.
You treat humans like you're voting in a 2 party political system, just like half the other low iq fools on the internet in these comment sections and that isn't how things work bud.
Nobody is just one thing and not the other. Humans are complex, multi faceted beings.
Nothing in this world works that way. Not if you actually want to understand anything with any sort of depth.
All I'm trying to show you is that it's much deeper and requires a LOT more thinking and effort. That's all.