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Only if you're cuddling against your will.
A lot of people are dating someone they're not that into, but feel forced to stay with for whatever reason. I've never found myself looking for intimacy anywhere else when I'm in a happy relationship.I’d rather cuddle the girl I’m banging, but maybe that’s just me. Call me crazy.
A lot of people are dating someone they're not that into, but feel forced to stay with for whatever reason. I've never found myself looking for intimacy anywhere else when I'm in a happy relationship.
Mostly out of need of resources that person has, or insecurity they can get the partner they really want. Or deserve that type of person. Or all of that. In my experience anyway.Exactly.
I never understood why people date someone they’re not into. Seems stupid to me.
It's called co-dependenceExactly.
I never understood why people date someone they’re not into. Seems stupid to me.
It's not even that fair. Even if you wouldn't, all that matters is whether she thinks it's cheating. There's no sense polling.Whenever you think "does [x] count as cheating?", just imagine the roles being reversed.
Would you consider it cheating if you found out your girlfriend/wife was cuddling with some other dude?
Only if you're cuddling against your will.
It's not even that fair. Even if you wouldn't, all that matters is whether she thinks it's cheating. There's no sense polling.
Bush league.That's true but most dudes don't have the balls to be like "hey if I wrapped a boise dime up in my arms, would you consider that cheating?" They just ask everyone around them and hope someone gives them permission.
So it's a good rule of thumb; if you would consider the reverse cheating, then it is cheating if you do it.