I lost my wife yesterday.

Terrible news. I have friends who are watching their spouses die. I don't know which is worse, watching someone suffer and die or the devastating shock of a sudden death. Both reinforce my belief that there is no god. If there is, it's just a being who likes to torture humans.
 
Wow. I've never been this shocked reading one of these threads. It almost feels like losing someone I know with how much I've always enjoyed reading your posts about your life together. I can't imagine what you're going through right now.

I'm truly sorry for your loss man. I don't even know what to say.
 
So very sorry for your loss, man. So many of your posts mention her and your journey together. All of us are wishing you the best. I never lost a spouse, especially so suddenly, but I have lost a child. PM for any questions or need to vent. Everyone has to work through grief their own way so take your time and do what you need to do. Believe me, doing is better than dwelling.
 
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ralphc1 said:
Terrible news. I have friends who are watching their spouses die. I don't know which is worse, watching someone suffer and die or the devastating shock of a sudden death. Both reinforce my belief that there is no god. If there is, it's just a being who likes to torture humans.
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Bro why would you even post this in this thread? You didn't even offer up any condolences. Instead you used this as an opportunity to prove there is no God or your angst toward God.

@sweetviolenturg is not religious but he has religious friends who are offering up their positive prayers and support right now, please rethink what you post man now is not the time for this stuff. The man just lost the love of his life have some compassion please.
 
@sweetviolenturg

As a long time sherbro and voracious reader of the Mayberry I am incredibly saddened that this tragedy has befallen you and your sweet Jana. My imagination cannot do justice to the pain you must feel, yet I can’t help but think that you can and will endure.

Please don’t do it alone. Reach out to anyone you have, including your sherbros. If you want to message, text, talk, it’s all good (I’ll be happy to share my number with you).

My sincere condolences. A lot of sherdoggers are rooting for you. Hang in there.
 
My heart and prayers go out to you during this troubling time.
If you need to talk pm me any time.
 
I clicked in this honestly hoping it was clickbait. This is one if the worst things I can imagine. I've lost loved ones too, but I've always had warning, so I had time to brace for it. It's hard for me to even imagine what you're going through. I wish I could tell you that I relate, and that I could give you advice on how to get thorough this, but I just can't, and that pisses me off to no end.

All I can do is just tell you how incredibly sorry I am for your loss.
 
That's fucked, out of nowhere like that.

I've heard of young people dying from strokes due to covid-related clotting. Anything that weakens the vascular system is scary because interruption of blood supply to the brain.
 
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She's gone. She passed away in her sleep for no apparent reason in the wee hours of the morning & I'm in total shock. I'm completely & utterly devastated. And I hurt so bad that it's even painful to breathe. Fuck, I don't even want to draw my next breath without her.

I'm posting here as a means to vent & to reach out because I'm totally alone here in Arizona. I've reached out to family, of course, but I still haven't notified her friends via phone or Facebook yet because I just can't face crying anymore. But I still need to distract myself from the emptiness & silence of this house. So, I've got the television on loud & I'm composing this as my heart lies shattered in my chest.

God, I loved her so much, guys. I mean, I think it was pretty obvious by how much I mentioned her & posted about her here. But you'd have to multiply that many times over to grasp how much I really loved her. And now, she's gone.

I won't know what happened to her until sometime Monday. Right now, I haven't got a clue. She was so young & so fit other than a couple of lingering issues from her tough battle with COVID last summer. She still experienced bouts of fatigue & she occasionally got a rattle in her lungs that she never dealt with before COVID. But other than that her doctor said she was in excellent health. None of this makes sense.

As I sit here alone all I can think of is how much I wish I had held her & told her I loved her even more often than I did. So, please, everyone. Take advantage of every moment that you can with your loved ones & be sure that you let them know how much you love them because time can be so damned short.

Rest in peace, my beloved wife, Jana. You were my life, baby & I don't want to go on without you.

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Damn sorry to that. I'm not very eloquent with
words but I'm sorry to hear you lost your wife
like that.

So from me and everybody here R.I.P
 
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