Relationships I cold approached three women at my mall

[fingercuffs]

My mall is fukkin pitiful lmao. It’s second hand shops that charge wayyyy too much, a dollarama, and a booze store. Although admittedly it’s the best booze store in town lol.

Also, it’s occupied by confused old people who stare a lot.

When I was looking at buying a house here realtors wouldn't even call me back being I was from San Jose thinking I would expect shopping malls. This all said, I really don't like malls anyway, regardless. I realised during Covid that I hadn't been to one in forever other than to walk through to the cinema.

 

[JudoThrowFiasco]

If this is real...it's just sad. If it's a gimmick...it's just weird

 

[William Huggins]

I don't even have a mall.
I thought picking up chicks at the mall finished in the 90s. Really strange.

Yeah, after the 90's you'd have to be an olympic powerlifter to pick up the average American girl...... Now they've got apps for locating them...... Or just follow food delivery drivers?

 

[fingercuffs]

stfu

And this is why you're groveling for attention from men on a fisticuffs forum.

 

[AFanNotAFighter]

Man this thread brings back memories of being in my late teens when the mall was the place to be to hang out and meet girls.

 

[I Am Legion]

if you wait for some sort of eye contact with smile before making an approach, you're missing out on a lot of women

Plenty of others out there.

 

[Brother Numsi]

Still not wanting to settle yet akhi Numsi ?

Meh

I need to get my money right so I can do more traveling and get a house. If I meet a good one, that’s just icing.

 

[RichardHarrow]

Meh

I need to get my money right so I can do more traveling and get a house. If I meet a good one, that’s just icing.

I don’t know why I get the impression you’re my age but you’re younger I take it ??

 

[Michaelangelo]

1. Rent Lambo

2. Hide autism

3. ????

4. Profit

 

[Thepaintbucket]

Some creeper just approached me at the mall today. Was it you OP

 

[Michaelangelo]

Some creeper just approached me at the mall today. Was it you OP

Did you make eye contact tho?

 

[Thepaintbucket]

Did you make eye contact tho?

Yes. I was trying to lead him on before shooting his advances down. No homo bro

 

[666]

Hey there. I think I might be one of the girls you approached. I'm newly transitioned to the form of a female but all 6'5" 265 pounds wanted you when we talked in the kraft dinner section.

 

[pugilistico]

Good for you. You should try to read cues and approach women who want to be approached.

I stopped "approaching" women entirely and let conversations happen naturally as if we're already friends.

 

[-Magua-]

Man this thread brings back memories of being in my late teens when the mall was the place to be to hang out and meet girls.

It's different in Southeast Asia.
Mall culture is thriving.


Malls in Manila/Makati are busy & packed on the weekends; the higher end ones are nice.
Current gal, approached @ Starbucks in condo mall, but was already welcomed in with smiles & signs beforehand; we both live in neighborhood & had seen each other regularly in condo gym & out/about.

Threadstarter, Get a handsome/cute dog, makes things cheat code easier.

 

[TheTickG]

Wanted to improve my verbal skills with the ladies so I randomly approached women at my mall. I opened them all with the question "excuse me, do you know where the food court" and I go off from there

1st chick was a single mom walking her kid, she was probably the most interested and actually stopped to talk to me and made eye contact. Actually carried a conversation. Didn't go for the number close oh well

2nd chick was in the bookstore, noticed her there. She walked away after I approached her and asked the opener question.

3rd chick was vaping outside the mall and I approached her. She was the worst one, made 0 eye contact and walked away right middle of the conversation LOL

I things to improve on by a lot (need to polish my flirty skills and don't go into interview mode, make jokes and tease the girl, go for the number close).

but my confidence/mojo with women is improving.

Good luck champ.

 

[Brother Numsi]

I don’t know why I get the impression you’re my age but you’re younger I take it ??

I was born in ‘79 homez

 

[William Huggins]

Which one has a penis?? I bet it was the single mum.......

 

[Dalarna3]

Cold approaching seems grim, man. At least get into a social setting like a party or a bar or something

 

[William Huggins]

Cold approaching seems grim, man. At least get into a social setting like a party or a bar or something

Noooo, definitely not, cold approaching is the new tinder for 2025....... You don't even need your normal, bars or gyms, just at the pharmacy whilst she's picking up cold sore cream......