Not sure what you mean. When I tried discussing the two entities (Hamas and Martyr Brigades for example)separately, Hog reiterated that the MB faction that enjoyed the highest support was in fact part of Hamas(militant wing). So it seems like you guys want to have it both ways. It's the same but also not the same when it's inconvenient.
No offense but that sounds like mental gymnastics that borders on gibberish. If a certain entity fucked up, caused a war, had my family killed, had my house destroyed, etc I would not be supporting them. That's just me though.
There's also a thing called Stockholm Syndrome and living a generation under Hamas will certainly get you to sympathize and support them even when it's against your interests.
War is terrible. Dehumanization by both sides is terrible. We agree on that.
Where we differ is Hamas must be removed and unfortunately there's no easy path to that. Many civilians have died and will sadly continue to die. I don't know what other path there is. I am all for any pragmatic solution. Even UN police peace keepers regulated area would be preferable to Hamas.