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Relationships Guys wife came out as asexual

Have a friend that's basically in one of those. Let's just say hes always angry.
 
She just given him greenlight to escorts. Why the complains?
 
I believe one could spend less time locked into that prison than one would if one solved the problem permanently and did their time, plus one would come out with all their house and money or at least more than half... Let her choose
 
method115 said:
Yea the only solution here is like someone else said and that's just driving up their debt so high they both lose everything. I do wonder if he could get her on record making these threats if that could be used against her. Would be a good idea to see what a lawyer says.
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That’s not the only way out, he should start going out with other people and cut his losses, she would lose her shit once she’s lost control, guaranteed. This is all about control for her, half his stuff isn’t enough, there’s a chance she might want him back once he’s proven to be desirable to other women. Letting her get too comfortable is a mistake men make that eventually destroys the relationship.
 
He just needs to find a lawyer and divorce her for irreconcilable differences. I doubt she would get half his retirement. She’ll get some of it. But no judge is going to listen to her say “I’m just asexual, and he has to stay with me anyway,” and be sympathetic to her.
 
Contempt said:
If he is seen to be actively wasting money, to pull something like this, the judge will give her even more of the asset pool. The judge isn't stupid, they've seen men try this shit to spite their ex before and they will punish you for it.

Just be a fucking adult, take the 'L', move out, cop the child support and move on with your life.
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You have to make this the norm. You can’t do it then file. Plus you’d have a paper trail of you saying you were doing this and why
 
I have the opposite problem.
 
LEWIS540 said:
Your husband came out as asexual?

Ask him if he has a problem with you getting your pipe elsewhere.
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Don't think that's the opposite ...
 
Bolsheviks brought in no fault divorce 1917.....that's when that shit started....... They wanted control away from religion.

I say vote for, you commit adultery in a marriage you lose your rights to anything.....

Also mandatory DNA testing for parental ownership of baby........

Fair and legally binding marriage contracts.......

Don't like it don't get married.......

Also big tax breaks for married families, and I give a shit about same sex marriage make them as responsible, want to be a gay or lesbian couple raising children, no problem but it happens between 2 loving people and the children benefit...... So does society.

No support for single parents unless your other half died ....... Then you get proper support, with increased benefits if your partner served directly for society even higher benefit, firefighter, soldier, police, nurse, doctor.......

If you're not interested in breaking society and want people responsible for their actions, it's easy to fix......
 
William Huggins said:
Bolsheviks brought in no fault divorce 1917.....that's when that shit started....... They wanted control away from religion.

I say vote for, you commit adultery in a marriage you lose your rights to anything.....

Also mandatory DNA testing for parental ownership of baby........

Fair and legally binding marriage contracts.......

Don't like it don't get married.......

Also big tax breaks for married families, and I give a shit about same sex marriage make them as responsible, want to be a gay or lesbian couple raising children, no problem but it happens between 2 loving people and the children benefit...... So does society.

No support for single parents unless your other half died ....... Then you get proper support, with increased benefits if your partner served directly for society even higher benefit, firefighter, soldier, police, nurse, doctor.......

If you're not interested in breaking society and want people responsible for their actions, it's easy to fix......
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Heil!!!!!
 
LEWIS540 said:
Heil!!!!!
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If only, I'm not a supporter of national socialism either.................

It's not going to work unless everyone lives in small towns as collectives..... Not sure humans are built to operate above groups beyond the 200 mark.....

Cities bring out the worst in people...... Chuck in socialism and you've got big issues.......
 
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This guy is only 42, he's young enough to ditch her and start over.
It sucks when women blow up families like this, but you just have to cut your losses and start over before it's too late or it gets worse.

And isn't asexual just that you don't have the desire for it? If this is a man that you love, and you don't want the divorce, why wouldn't you just do it to keep him happy and keep the family together?
Just really selfish all the way around, and it's not something you can really explain to your kids and sound like the good guy/victim. She'll control the narrative and make you look like the bad guy.
 
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