Female dating strategy (Reddit)

fungi said:
Whether you're willing or not to acknowledge that people of any social status, confession, age, gender, race, profession, income level, or whatever, ARE more likely to discriminate against bi's than gays&lesbians, and ARE more likely to stigmatize bi-men than bi-women, such discrepancy exist.

It's not that different than the dissing biracial people face. For example, half-black/half-white person from the very birth is very likely to be ostracized by both blacks AND whites. Whites diss them for being "black", blacks diss them for NOT being black ENOUGH.

Not by all. BUTT, bi-many.

Same shite goes for any type of mixture. A white-white kid, German parent#1/French parent#2, or vice-versa, is conditioned to "despise the frogs" by his kraut-fam side, and conditioned to "despise the krauts" by his frog-fams. That is the nature of our nature: tribalism, xenophobia, etc.

Bi's belong neither to heteros nor to homos (of both sexes). Maybe, they should form their own "tribe", as both above studies suggested.

Being rejected by both sides of your fam is twice as traumatic. That is why so many bi-racial folk try to form their own bi- or half-something communities.

It's been observed, in the US Eurasians of differing origin, for ex. half-Chinese, half-Koreans, half-Japanese, half-Vietnamese, etc. often find it easier to bond among each other* than within their own respective communities. Because they can relate, they usually share similar identity issues growing up, etc.

* - even under antagonistic historical circumstances, for ex. half-Japanese&half-Koreans may sometimes bond easier than half-Japanese&fully-Japanese, or half-Koreans&fully-Koreans.

This happens. Not always, butt, too often for it to be considered a statistical outlier.
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I completely understand what you're saying and I get it. What I was saying digressed onto a tangent.
 
Noveltymortar said:
You absolutely avoided directly answering my assertion that feeling discriminated against is not the same as being discriminated against.
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I'll address it right now.
Feeling discriminated =/= being discriminated.
On that I agree with you.

Butt, correct me if I'm wrong, your post suggested or at least implied indirectly that bi's in fact did not face higher levels of discrimination compared to those of "gays & gals". To which I replied in my previous post ITT.
 
MVelsor said:
The best thing a bisexual dude can do for himself is realize that straight people are going to consider him a :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: regardless. He should then stop caring about what people think - entirely - and grab happiness by the penis. There's no "discrimination" by gays* who are looking to get laid; AS IF that's going to be an impediment to anything. <Lmaoo> People are more annoyed by their shame and feeling they need to stay in hiding.
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Word!
"Free yourself" life creed is applicable to every single person on this planet.

If you think that 100%-hetero folks of both sexes don't have issues, man, are you in for a surprise!!! Trust me, I say this as a psychologist, not as a les bisque.

* - so? Are you or are you not considering @TidWell, potentially? I'm confused, no homo or yes homo?

MVelsor said:
... (except for treacherous Tidwell butt like, please)...
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Could this be

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MVelsor said:
In what kind of way? Nah lol.

It's not really like that even with the other G/B posters and I've talked to many of them (Zer, and some of his followers) off the main forum. I always took the TidWell thing as more of a running gag and him being a weirdo.

His "gay threads" aren't really gay either. I started one of those and it was promptly outright deleted off the forum, not even Great Beyonded. His WR threads have always been aimed to paint us in the most petty, preposterous and politically charged light. He's no bro regardless.
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You mentioned "no discrimination" by gays (the emboldened part), I used it as "sword play".

Your jokingly bashing of Tidwell was the setup for my joke.
 
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MaxMMA said:
Thought I'd switch up the normal girl problem convo around here. I stubbled upon female dating strategies sub forum on Reddit and all I can say is WOW!

Worth a look if for nothing else than go to see what the average guy is up against in the dating scene.

I know that men can be quite delusional, especially when it comes to chicks, but GODDAMN, this is a whole other level.

Never in my life have I seen a group of people talk themselves up while simultaneously, subconsciously, admitting they are garbage people and have no clue what they are doing.

The main theme of every thread in the sub forum (regardless of actual labeled topic) is how awesome women are, how women hold all the power in the dating scene, and how, despsite these factors, women still can't choose the right men lol.

After reading just a few posts, it becomes evidently clear that probably 90% of those women need a man to tell them to STFU and dick the attitude out of them.

How can these chicks get that, when the whole world is telling them thats not what they need and even worse, not what they want.
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These are the things women used to talk about behind our back. Now it's just turbo charged and men can take a look in how a lot of women operate. It has its upsides, but I think it's just weird how thousands of years of separate conversations between the sexes gets washed away in a couple of years.
 
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