Female dating strategy (Reddit)

[Fake Doctor]

women are baseline insane in the membrane so if you see it all written out like that in detail and them all coming together in a meeting of the minds its going to be fireworks and lightbulbs exploding guaranteed

How does the saying go? Nobody is willing to tell them they're batshit because everyone wants to screw them. If everyone kept blowing smoke up my ass because they wanted to get in my pants I'd have a pretty screwed up view of how to interact with the opposite sex too. I suppose we're somewhat to blame.

 

[THEfightsAREfixed]

How does the saying go? Nobody is willing to tell them they're batshit because everyone wants to screw them. If everyone kept blowing smoke up my ass because they wanted to get in my pants I'd have a pretty screwed up view of how to interact with the opposite sex too. I suppose we're somewhat to blame.

certainly its endlessly exacerbated by the environmental factors but its just a fundamentally unavoidable issue you just learn to ride the waves you cant stop them from coming up the shore as they say or you enjoy the view etc you know what im trying to say

 

[DidYouJustGetHere]

How does the saying go? Nobody is willing to tell them they're batshit because everyone wants to screw them. If everyone kept blowing smoke up my ass because they wanted to get in my pants I'd have a pretty screwed up view of how to interact with the opposite sex too. I suppose we're somewhat to blame.

What do you expect when these types of "men" exist

 

[Fake Doctor]

What do you expect when these types of "men" exist

You know, to be fair to that guy, that may have been the most promising mating strategy at his disposal. Life gives you lemons and all that, and a quick look at that guy strongly suggests a good load of citrus in the hand he was dealt.

 

[DidYouJustGetHere]

You know, to be fair to that guy, that may have been the most promising mating strategy at his disposal. Life gives you lemons and all that, and a quick look at that guy strongly suggests a good load of citrus in the hand he was dealt.

That's another way to look at it I guess, I just can't fathom that someone is willing to stoop that low...

 

[Fake Doctor]

That's another way to look at it I guess, I just can't fathom that someone is willing to stoop that low...

Neither can I... But them I am reminded that there are guys who pay women to humiliate them. There is something in the minds of some people that just does not compute with me. They just have some bone in their heads that I simply don't have.

 

[bubbleboyjones]

What do you expect when these types of "men" exist

The story as I read it is that this dude let his wife started seeing another women and then he ended up banging his wife and the other women.

 

[Crawler89]

Yeah..sounds more like that dudes living the life.
Gets to watch lesbian fucking, gets to fuck em both..

 

[Jack Reacheround]

I think this was already a thread.

Women don’t need a dating strategy. At least not to get dates. All they have to do is exist.

If we’re taking about strategies to prevent themselves from being date raped, beat, or otherwise hooked up with an asshole, then all they have to do is reject their instincts and not date the guys they initially find the most attractive. Because young women typically find themselves attracted to absolute assholes.

 

[DidYouJustGetHere]

The story as I read it is that this dude let his wife started seeing another women and then he ended up banging his wife and the other women.

Well shit he's leaving the dream then

 

[Hades86]

I think this was already a thread.

Women don’t need a dating strategy. At least not to get dates. All they have to do is exist.

If we’re taking about strategies to prevent themselves from being date raped, beat, or otherwise hooked up with an asshole, then all they have to do is reject their instincts and not date the guys they initially find the most attractive. Because young women typically find themselves attracted to absolute assholes.

Something has to be said tho. Is there a correlation between being ridiculously good looking and being an asshole?

I think yes. The nicest good looking guys usually grew up fat or had a sick mom or something that made them be more rational.

But Maybe I'm just an ugly hater

 

[Contempt]

You know, to be fair to that guy, that may have been the most promising mating strategy at his disposal. Life gives you lemons and all that, and a quick look at that guy strongly suggests a good load of citrus in the hand he was dealt.

Looks more like an over-abundance of soy to me.

 

[ineverpost]

Something has to be said tho. Is there a correlation between being ridiculously good looking and being an asshole?

I think yes. The nicest good looking guys usually grew up fat or had a sick mom or something that made them be more rational.

But Maybe I'm just an ugly hater

It's easier to be an asshole than to be considerate of other people's feelings. If you have something people want, you can get away with being a dick. You will see that the majority of rich people are assholes as well. The people that associate with you will just want to use you for something and that probably just encourages you to be a bigger asshole, but in a way those people deserve each other.

 

[TankAbbott4Eva]

I think this was already a thread.

Women don’t need a dating strategy. At least not to get dates. All they have to do is exist.

If we’re taking about strategies to prevent themselves from being date raped, beat, or otherwise hooked up with an asshole, then all they have to do is reject their instincts and not date the guys they initially find the most attractive. Because young women typically find themselves attracted to absolute assholes.

Women more need a strategy to not get "pumped and dumped" regularly in terms of dating, which I guess is part of avoiding arseholes.

 

[Kardashians]

there are guys who pay women to humiliate them.

I can make you one of those guys

 

[Jack Reacheround]

Something has to be said tho. Is there a correlation between being ridiculously good looking and being an asshole?

I think yes. The nicest good looking guys usually grew up fat or had a sick mom or something that made them be more rational.

But Maybe I'm just an ugly hater

I think so. I think when you aren’t very good looking, male or female, you are forced to develop more of a personality and learn more. I don’t think it’s necessarily a hard rule. But I think in general it is true.

Shit, whenever I let myself go a bit and am overweight, I notice people treat me a whole lot differently than when I am in great shape. Whenever I get into shape, suddenly my jokes are funny. Those same jokes just happen to not land if I’m 20 - 30 lbs overweight. It’s no coincidence. People are shallow, myself included. So people who are very good looking have everyone hanging into their every word, no matter how stupid, opening doors for them both figuratively and literally, and everything else.

 

[SuperFightFreaks]

Women hold almost zero power in dating other than choosing to fuck or not. It is their ONLY play. Most will play it far too early as well.

 

[Vergilius]

Women hold almost zero power in dating other than choosing to fuck or not. It is their ONLY play. Most will play it far too early as well.

That is indeed the issue. Girls can pick and choose good looking guys to have sex with them, without having to be all that attractive themselves... but getting a worthwhile partner is a whole different kettle of fish.

There are far more well-educated, attractive and intelligent women than men around these days. The competition for "high value" men is pretty intense (as witnessed by female strategy forum), because most women don't want a man of lower social standing than themselves. And a "high value" man isn't someone with six-pack necessarily - it's someone with a brain, an education and a decent job who can make a good partner in the long term.

I started waking up to this reality when young, attractive female colleagues of mine starting asking me for dating advice and how to tell the guys who were worth a damn from those who just wanted to get their leg over. I was floored at first, because I couldn't understand how it was possible for these women to have any difficulty finding a nice boyfriend... but it was apparently really tough.

It's like an alternate reality to me: when I was young, it was me asking female friends for advice on how to get a nice girlfriend. Now that I'm middle-aged and married, the tables have turned.

 

[SuperFightFreaks]

That is indeed the issue. Girls can pick and choose good looking guys to have sex with them, without having to be all that attractive themselves... but getting a worthwhile partner is a whole different kettle of fish.

There are far more well-educated, attractive and intelligent women than men around these days. The competition for "high value" men is pretty intense (as witnessed by female strategy forum), because most women don't want a man of lower social standing than themselves. And a "high value" man isn't someone with six-pack necessarily - it's someone with a brain, an education and a decent job who can make a good partner in the long term.

I started waking up to this reality when young, attractive female colleagues of mine starting asking me for dating advice and how to tell the guys who were worth a damn from those who just wanted to get their leg over. I was floored at first, because I couldn't understand how it was possible for these women to have any difficulty finding a nice boyfriend... but it was apparently really tough.

It's like an alternate reality to me: when I was young, it was me asking female friends for advice on how to get a nice girlfriend. Now that I'm middle-aged and married, the tables have turned.

Yeah it can be rough for women, they have my sympathies. Ive had friends that were female and have tried to explain to them that if they put out early, they are really gambling on if the guy will actually like them or not. I have NEVER had a relationship with a woman who gave me sex quickly, I usually lose all interest at that point, at least in regard to pursuing an actual relationship. When a woman complains about finding a good man, that is almost always the issue, she is having sex with them MUCH too soon. If a girl starts sexting before the first date, while I may want to fuck them, I already see them as just a cum depository and nothing more.

 

[tuckermaclain]

Like most other serious Redditors, FDS people are losers. They are the bottom-feeding squeaky-wheels that want others to know of their suffering. They are the one who have no value but seem to think they deserve a high value mate. Similar to the pigs who demand that you consider them beautiful. Not enough that they live in a dream world, but they demand that you participate in it.