you can't compare losing your souls in DS just to losing xp in fo4.
Sure you can! They are almost identical mechanics.
You don't get to keep the experience you've gained until you return to the campfire and spend it in Dark Souls, or in Fallout 4, until you return to the bed and spend the night (but you can level while out in the field, however it's reversed upon death, much like FFXI).
Alternately? It's a little more brutal in Fallout 4 than it is in Demon Souls / Dark Souls / Bloodborne as those titles give you the chance to regain that time invested, and experience lost. Whereas if you die in Fallout 4 after a couple hours of adventuring? It's permagone, no questions asked. The end.
There is also no fast travel to zip you back to a campfire, if you venture out? You have to get your ass all the way back.
souls are everything in DS not just xp
Not really... It's just exp. Sure you can buy some materials and stuff with it, but all of those are cheap, and pale to compare to the 100-150k experience costs of leveling post 70, etc.
you die without recollecting them they are gone
....That's the point. You *get* a chance to recollect them. In Fallout 4 you don't.
it's nowhere near the same
True, it's much worse in Fallout 4.
maybe if bottle caps where like souls but they're not.
Ugh... That's exactly what happens. Any experience, weapons, bottle caps, materials, progress, building, recruiting, quests you've finished are RESET back to zero / unfinished if you die.
No chance to get any of it back at all. Zip. Gone forever.
You don't lose the materials you had spent / saved up before, much like you don't lose progress you've already invested in Dark Souls.
I never flipped out from getting killed in fallout
Yeah well, maybe you should play some Fallout 4 again... This time on Survival.
now getting invaded by some cunt after already been killed by a boss and losing 200k souls because some douche wanted to do PvP is a different story.
And you STILL get to get them back after he kills you.
In Fallout 4 the progress is gone forever.