Where did I say gay was an insult?
Your hostile feelings towards the LGBT community are well-established. Many will attribute this to ignorance, fear, religion, or conservative ideology. Some would say however that these feelings are anxiety-based, that your transphobia is a result of your latent desires to engage in sexual behaviors with ladyboys, and when placed in a situation that threatens to arouse these unwanted desires, you react with panic and anger.
There was actually a study to investigate this theory. What they found was men who were homophobic and reported negative feelings about homosexuality had significant sexual arousal when shown male homosexual stimuli.
https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1996-00463-014
I'm not saying I definitely believe this to be the case with you, but I just find it more likely than the highly improbable bullshit claim of you just caring about the children.