The flu certainly can be deadly, but we already have some herd immunity to influenza, and a great deal of experience in developing flu vaccines. We have no herd immunity to covid-19, and its very novelty means it will be more difficult to develop an effective vaccine.
The corona-cold also CAN be deadly (just like the flu). Every year, we encounter a "novel" flu...a mutation...a variant...etc. If we didn't, there would be no reason to get a flu vaccine annually throughout one's life. Furthermore, even with this evolved immunity and vaccine, the flu still has killed far more people and does not receive this level of media attention, government action, and general societal response.
For comparison's sake, influenza generally kills about 30,000 people in the US each year on average. The first death in the US from covid-19 was on February 29th; forty days later, the US death toll is almost 18,000. It's not the flu.
I've chosen to not yet dispute "official" numbers regarding the flu because they act as a common stasis point to begin a discussion between differing perspectives. The "30,000 per year on average" flu deaths show an obvious contradiction to the rhetoric of "saving lives" at the expense of individual rights and freedoms due to the corona-cold. Now that we are focusing on the metric itself, I'll posit my concerns:
I am skeptical of "each year on average" because the rhetoric implies a span over a 12-month period, yet most are sick during "cold/flu" season which would colloquially be understood as "winter-time" (sick season)...therefore, 3 months. Thus, a comparison to a death rate that spans over "forty days" does not seem inappropriate. Rather, it seems like the flu.
You state that the first death in the US from the corona-cold was February 29th. I am highly skeptical regarding the truth of this claim. Confirmed death? Tested death? Death DUE to the corona-cold or other health factors? What about untested deaths that were ascribed as being deaths to the flu back in December? Even the news, through their propagandizing sensationalism, have mentioned similar concepts. I am highly skeptical of the timeline of this "plague." I am not confident in mankind's ability to prove this beyond a reasonable doubt.
Edited to add: Keep in mind, influenza kills 30,000 per year in almost complete absence of mitigation measures other than vaccine (which less than half the population gets).
That data would better serve my argument: Even with an "almost complete absence of mitigation measures other than vaccine (which less than half the population gets)" (and without social distancing), 30,000 still die. 30,000 people die and practically nothing is done. 18,000 have died and practically everything is done. There seems to be a discrepancy in the magnitude of response this amount of death has garnered.
Due to social distancing and increased emphasis on hygiene, influenza deaths are expected to be way down this year.
Or also because influenza deaths are now being labeled as corona-cold deaths?
Furthermore, if the rhetoric's aim is to convince that "social distancing saves lives" in general and that that is a good thing and should be followed, then the rhetoric will have to address the concept that social distancing is also "doing more harm than good." A plethora of counterexamples would serve this purpose.
Here's some other rhetoric: if people were in far better physical shape, there would be far fewer deaths from the flu.
Exercising saves lives > social distancing saves lives. I wonder why they haven't made that law across the world.