"Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life"

I think it's a optimistic quote. Is it realistic? According to the responses I've seen so far it is for some and other have a different opinion. I guess it's subjective when it comes down to it.

But I've worked one particular job where I felt like it wasn't work, I enjoyed it that much.
 
my wife grew to sell a few years back, it doesnt make much and it's a heachache to schedule fresh produce for a certain number of friends...... and in general, selling to friends and family is an absolute monkey shit way of making money. If you profit, they'll get angry at you............ it is some bullshit. thankfully, we moved away from that into another sector and business is great, family is never involved or solicited.

for long term work, I have to be creating something that someone feels has value, and mass appeal = $$$, that I can do forever as long as I can dictate my terms.
I can set up a stand right at my house and have different farmers markets to sell at. I did a test run last year and I can be successful (relatively speaking towards this line of work...there's no real money in this). But I saw the same shifts that I did with music. It goes from prioritizing what I want to grow and want to eat on a flexible schedule, to dedicating the majority of my gardens to a focus on just a few crops. And I'm locked into this throughout the whole season, hustling every step of the way. Working by myself, for myself, great, sounds good on paper. But once you're in it, you feel the obligation to continue pursuing sales. Obv. we can't control the weather or certain circumstances, for any number of reasons you can lose crops and that's part of growing food, but when thats attached to money it just becomes stress, which is not why I got into this.

I found out I'm not that interested in full scale sales. I'll sell a big variety of cherry tomatoes because they really sell themselves and its no extra work for me, but I don't want to be owned by my garden when realistically talking about making like 8-15k for the season, It's just not worth it. I would need to have a much bigger operation to make it worthwhile financially but my whole operation is already bigger than I would like it to be.
 
Yeah I dont agree with this. I went to school to be a recording engineer and once I got in and started to get successful, the first thing i realized is doing this for a career will make me hate it. Plus it doesnt pay well and the hours are brutal.

I would actually phrase it " if you love something dont do it for money". If it happens to pay your bills, awesome. I think a lot of people are just confusing liking their job with something they would do if they werent getting paid.


I dont love my job currently but I dont do much, get paid decent and I do love that!
 
When I was a young man I was an OJT (on the job training) coach.

Basically all these paper pushers would get stuck occasionally on how to process a certain job, and they'd call me for help. I would tell them the correct way to handle it.

Loved that job because all I did all day was be helpful to people and solve their problems. And they all appreciated me for it.

But because it was a fun job, everyone wanted to do it, so the company knew they didn't have to pay very much.
 
For years, Howard Hughes would rarely leave his ottoman.

He quite literally lived on that chair, eating tv dinners and urinating in jars.

During this time, the man successfully ran an entire business empire in vast sectors.

That's what it's all about.
 
Only met 1 guy this applied to with a 9-5. He was a chemical engineer and the head of the dept. Bro came to work everyday. We would ask him why he showed up on the weekends, then he would get all excited talking about what he was working on. And wouldn't shut up about it to the point we had to walk away mid convo. He probably jerked off to the periodic table.

People said he still lived at home with his mom too. She had to be at least 80 something. Fucking dork.
 
A lot of people also say if they start doing what they love as a job, it becomes another job.

I think it's better to do something you enjoy but also something that feels like it has meaning. I know people who run animal shelters and they're working all the fucking time. They sure as hell aren't doing it for money.
 
I think it's more about the people. If you're working fun group that really gets along then sure. As far as work goes, the moment it because an "I have to" then no. At some point it's going to lose it's appeal.
 
It depends on the job.

I wouldn't want to be a professional gamer who competes in competitions. The stress would absolutely ruin it for me.

I also don't want to rip my dick off.
 
I think it's bullshit too. If you have a boss or if you manage employees then you have responsibility and answer to someone else. It essentially zaps your freedom even if you enjoy it. It always made me laugh when people get fired for stealing time when that's exactly what companies and organizations do to people over the course of a lifetime.
 
Do you think this quote is even remotely realistic?

I think it's bullshit.

Most work that needs to be done is shit that nobody loves, and that's why they have to pay you to do it.

Maybe you have doctors that love treating people or something, but almost every other job is just some bullshit that you only do because you're getting paid. And you dream of the day when you don't have to do it anymore.
It is semi-true. Much less stress if you like what you do. But even the best job has routine, which is not that fascinating.
 
I guess it depends on the person...

There are people doing what they "love", having their dream jobs and being miserable as fuck. Just see all the musicians that killed themselves.

Then you have office people like me who don't particularly love their jobs but find a way to make it work (watching series while working from home and constantly bullshitting with my coworkers at the office).

A friend of mine used to have a pizza joint 15 years ago in another country (he was forced to come back) and he said it never felt like work. So I guess it can be true.
 
It is semi-true. Much less stress if you like what you do. But even the best job has routine, which is not that fascinating.
I respectfully disagree in the fact that routine is something negative.

Routine stuff are usually the most satisfying part of my life.
 
It could be true I guess, depends on the person and the work.

After years of fronting bands and having a lot of fun but not making a lot of money, I wanted to earn a living as a musician so I made it happen. I built and perfected a very marketable solo act, booked all the venues and events I wanted to play, played over a thousand gigs and it was pretty awesome for a while.

But eventually, after quite a few years it became just a job and the only reason I was still doing it was for the paycheck. I had some issues with my vocal chords for the first time in my life at one point and determined I'd rather preserve my voice for future opportunities that are more, let's just say, musically envigorating, than potentially destroy my voice for just to make my nut every week, and I mostly stopped with the solo work.

There were other reasons, I had quit drinking and didn't want to be in an environment where I was having free drinks pushed in my face 5 days a week. For all the great and fun gigs there's a lot of shitty low energy rooms too. That gets really old after a while. I absolutely abhorred having to constantly advertise myself and my own name on social media. I'm very low key and I don't care for that kind of attention but you have to promote as a "pro" act or whatever, its just part of the business. God do I not miss that shit.

At a point it stops being about music and it just becomes, I'm selling a product. The other thing is playing solo can be very liberating. To have full control over your entire songlist, read the room and call your setlist throughout the night on the fly, to arrange songs however you want in whatever key you want, these are things you don't really get to do in a band and there's a lot of freedom in not having to clear every decision through 5 other people. But it's also limited in not having other musicians to bounce energy off of. After long enough I just felt like a monkey clapping symbols together for people.

It's important to note that we change as we age, our interests and priorities. What you think is really cool at 30 isn't necessarily going to be the case at 45. I'm way more into growing my crops and produce today than I am into music and this wasn't even a part of my life 15 years ago. I have the opportunity now to grow enough food to sell it, but I'm weary of going down the same path and ruining another passion of mine. Sometimes its best to keep a hobby a hobby, even if it's somethnig you take very seriously.
Great post, thanks for sharing.
 
If I had a billion dollars I would never work a day in my life. Folks who value work more than their leisure time either don't have hobbies or don't like their family. My dad was one of those work 16 hours a day type of guy and he regretted not having a better work life balance later in life when he retired.
 
If I had a billion dollars I would never work a day in my life. Folks who value work more than their leisure time either don't have hobbies or don't like their family. My dad was one of those work 16 hours a day type of guy and he regretted not having a better work life balance later in life when he retired.

.......I mean you dad is God. Tough gig.
 
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