"Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life"

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Do you think this quote is even remotely realistic?

I think it's bullshit.

Most work that needs to be done is shit that nobody loves, and that's why they have to pay you to do it.

Maybe you have doctors that love treating people or something, but almost every other job is just some bullshit that you only do because you're getting paid. And you dream of the day when you don't have to do it anymore.
 
Do you think this quote is even remotely realistic?

I think it's bullshit.

Most work that needs to be done is shit that nobody loves, and that's why they have to pay you to do it.

Maybe you have doctors that love treating people or something, but almost every other job is just some bullshit that you only do because you're getting paid. And you dream of the day when you don't have to do it anymore.
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It's absolutely true, I only work 3-4 months out of the year doing a regular job, the rest I either go on tour with my band or work for other bands on the road. I'm not rich but I've gotten to travel all over the planet doing something I actually enjoy and it often is a great enviroment to work, you make friends with everybody, there is no office drama to speak of.
 
For me a work that I could love would involve creating.
Or working and improving on a system and keeping it well run.
Having the capacity to achieve innovation is huge.

The modern world involves a lot of clutter than can taint the purity of certain professions, but the lucky ones that find love for their craftsmanship have something greater than money to keep them going.

It takes courage and a strong vision to go for your passion, takes luck to have or find one.

But those who do relish in their work.

 
Do you think this quote is even remotely realistic?

I think it's bullshit.

Most work that needs to be done is shit that nobody loves, and that's why they have to pay you to do it.

Maybe you have doctors that love treating people or something, but almost every other job is just some bullshit that you only do because you're getting paid. And you dream of the day when you don't have to do it anymore.


Yea I think it's nonsense. I love my job and the folks who work with me but I work like 13 hour plus days and somewhere around hour 7 or so it starts to feel like work no matter how well the day is going. I get up happy to go but by the end of the day I'm ready to leave.
 
It's absolutely true, I only work 3-4 months out of the year doing a regular job, the rest I either go on tour with my band or work for other bands on the road. I'm not rich but I've gotten to travel all over the planet doing something I actually enjoy and it often is a great enviroment to work, you make friends with everybody, there is no office drama to speak of.

I’ve been on the road half my life as photographer/camera operator… something I love but do it enough and it will turn into a chore. Also, totally depends who you’re on the road with.

I’m fortunate enough to have worked for mostly great clients, but sometimes I got stuck in extremely shitty places, I once had to stay two weeks in a hotel in Sao Paulo where you had to enter a cage first because the spot was so bad, the windows were broken and at night homeless people were fighting in the street with machetes….

I’d take this any day over working at McDonalds or being a cashier at Walmart though.
 
It's true, at least for me. But even if you did your fav activity everyday or most of the week....you'd probably feel it became tedious and mundane of which you'd need a break. The measure is how long can you go without doing something you love without the strong urge to return to it. I'm craving my job about 4 days into a vacation
 
I’ve been on the road half my life as photographer/camera operator… something I love but do it enough and it will turn into a chore. Also, totally depends who you’re on the road with.

I’m fortunate enough to have worked for mostly great clients, but sometimes I got stuck in extremely shitty places, I once had to stay two weeks in a hotel in Sao Paulo where you had to enter a cage first because the spot was so bad, the windows were broken and at night homeless people were fighting in the street with machetes….

I’d take this any day over working at McDonalds or being a cashier at Walmart though.
Personally I've never had any bad experiences on the road other than getting horribly sick once in China. It's never gotten old for me because I've been working my way up. I started out just being a merch guy, but now I am a jack of all trades and you can hire me for just about anything related to tour. I can manage a tour for a smaller band or be just as happy being one of the spokes in the wheel for an international act.
 
Do you think this quote is even remotely realistic?

I think it's bullshit.

Most work that needs to be done is shit that nobody loves, and that's why they have to pay you to do it.

Maybe you have doctors that love treating people or something, but almost every other job is just some bullshit that you only do because you're getting paid. And you dream of the day when you don't have to do it anymore.
It’s bullshit. Once what you love becomes your livelihood, you’ll start to love it less. Unless you’re a professional athlete or musician, maybe. Or a photographer for Playboy

Most people aren’t even lucky enough to get a job doing something they love.
 
It could be true I guess, depends on the person and the work.

After years of fronting bands and having a lot of fun but not making a lot of money, I wanted to earn a living as a musician so I made it happen. I built and perfected a very marketable solo act, booked all the venues and events I wanted to play, played over a thousand gigs and it was pretty awesome for a while.

But eventually, after quite a few years it became just a job and the only reason I was still doing it was for the paycheck. I had some issues with my vocal chords for the first time in my life at one point and determined I'd rather preserve my voice for future opportunities that are more, let's just say, musically envigorating, than potentially destroy my voice for just to make my nut every week, and I mostly stopped with the solo work.

There were other reasons, I had quit drinking and didn't want to be in an environment where I was having free drinks pushed in my face 5 days a week. For all the great and fun gigs there's a lot of shitty low energy rooms too. That gets really old after a while. I absolutely abhorred having to constantly advertise myself and my own name on social media. I'm very low key and I don't care for that kind of attention but you have to promote as a "pro" act or whatever, its just part of the business. God do I not miss that shit.

At a point it stops being about music and it just becomes, I'm selling a product. The other thing is playing solo can be very liberating. To have full control over your entire songlist, read the room and call your setlist throughout the night on the fly, to arrange songs however you want in whatever key you want, these are things you don't really get to do in a band and there's a lot of freedom in not having to clear every decision through 5 other people. But it's also limited in not having other musicians to bounce energy off of. After long enough I just felt like a monkey clapping symbols together for people.

It's important to note that we change as we age, our interests and priorities. What you think is really cool at 30 isn't necessarily going to be the case at 45. I'm way more into growing my crops and produce today than I am into music and this wasn't even a part of my life 15 years ago. I have the opportunity now to grow enough food to sell it, but I'm weary of going down the same path and ruining another passion of mine. Sometimes its best to keep a hobby a hobby, even if it's somethnig you take very seriously.
 
It's true, at least for me. But even if you did your fav activity everyday or most of the week....you'd probably feel it became tedious and mundane of which you'd need a break. The measure is how long can you go without doing something you love without the strong urge to return to it. I'm craving my job about 4 days into a vacation
yep, something is wrong if I'm on vacation and I dont work <lol>

it doesnt have to be much, like 10 hours a week, I can get a good amount done, as long as I'm in the zone
 
It could be true I guess, depends on the person and the work.

After years of fronting bands and having a lot of fun but not making a lot of money, I wanted to earn a living as a musician so I made it happen. I built and perfected a very marketable solo act, booked all the venues and events I wanted to play, played over a thousand gigs and it was pretty awesome for a while.

But eventually, after quite a few years it became just a job and the only reason I was still doing it was for the paycheck. I had some issues with my vocal chords for the first time in my life at one point and determined I'd rather preserve my voice for future opportunities that are more, let's just say, musically envigorating, than potentially destroy my voice for just to make my nut every week, and I mostly stopped with the solo work.

There were other reasons, I had quit drinking and didn't want to be in an environment where I was having free drinks pushed in my face 5 days a week. For all the great and fun gigs there's a lot of shitty low energy rooms too. That gets really old after a while. I absolutely abhorred having to constantly advertise myself and my own name on social media. I'm very low key and I don't care for that kind of attention but you have to promote as a "pro" act or whatever, its just part of the business. God do I not miss that shit.

At a point it stops being about music and it just becomes, I'm selling a product. The other thing is playing solo can be very liberating. To have full control over your entire songlist, read the room and call your setlist throughout the night on the fly, to arrange songs however you want in whatever key you want, these are things you don't really get to do in a band and there's a lot of freedom in not having to clear every decision through 5 other people. But it's also limited in not having other musicians to bounce energy off of. After long enough I just felt like a monkey clapping symbols together for people.

It's important to note that we change as we age, our interests and priorities. What you think is really cool at 30 isn't necessarily going to be the case at 45. I'm way more into growing my crops and produce today than I am into music and this wasn't even a part of my life 15 years ago. I have the opportunity now to grow enough food to sell it, but I'm weary of going down the same path and ruining another passion of mine. Sometimes its best to keep a hobby a hobby, even if it's somethnig you take very seriously.
my wife grew to sell a few years back, it doesnt make much and it's a heachache to schedule fresh produce for a certain number of friends...... and in general, selling to friends and family is an absolute monkey shit way of making money. If you profit, they'll get angry at you............ it is some bullshit. thankfully, we moved away from that into another sector and business is great, family is never involved or solicited.

for long term work, I have to be creating something that someone feels has value, and mass appeal = $$$, that I can do forever as long as I can dictate my terms.
 
I love my job and I can say it’s true to a degree but you still have to wake up in the morning and stuff.
 
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