Divorce thread....

[Brandon Wilson]

Is psychological development not biological?

You inherit certain traits, both physically and psychologically, from your parents/ancestors. But most of a persons psychological development is from environmental factors, and has little to do with biology.

Some of the factors that influence a child's psychological development include prenatal care and nutrition, childhood nutrition, maternal bonding, and parenting skill and style. Social status, area of upbringing, and wealth/poverty are also huge factors in this equation.

You also seem to be confusing what I said in my original post. I never said anything about whether or not it's better for children to be in a single or two parent family.

If you can find it, watch the documentary: Are all men philes? circa 2013. It gives a great insight into the way human beings are biologically wired.

 

[loyalyolayal]

Biologically speaking, we weren't meant to be in monogamous relationships. We we're meant to spread our seed and procreate. This monogamy shit is a human invention, created by the church.

That would be a great topic of conversation with your daughter's baby daddies.

 

[mjmj]

What does that have to do with biology?

What does your original reply have to do with the topis at hand? No one cares or asked what "nature" says.

 

[Brandon Wilson]

What does your original reply have to do with the topis at hand? No one cares or asked what "nature" says.

Then ignore it fuck wit.

Seems pretty simple, no? But instead you had to open your gob hole and put your $0.02 in right? How about fuck off?

 

[Samuraispiderma]

They were single moms when you met them?

Nope. They were never married before me. They both had two children with me. Both were definitely in love with me when we got married. The first one actually proposed to me. She wanted to get back with me last year, but even her two kids told me that I was too good for her. Said the only thing she could commit to was running. She ran a 50K marathon at age 45. Both my exes were athletes; the second rode a 200-mile bikeathon or whatever you call it.

 

[Ogata]

Nope. They were never married before me. They both had two children with me. Both were definitely in love with me when we got married. The first one actually proposed to me. She wanted to get back with me last year, but even her two kids told me that I was too good for her. Said the only thing she could commit to was running. She ran a 50K marathon at age 45. Both my exes were athletes; the second rode a 200-mile bikeathon or whatever you call it.

Damn that's weird because she seems to want you but is willing to cheat. When the relationships began, was it based on love or lust?

I asked this from others and I am trying to understand the cause of failed relationship and that if this is based on lust, sexuality and infatuation or was the beginning based on deep companionship?

 

[mjmj]

Then ignore it fuck wit.

Seems pretty simple, no? But instead you had to open your gob hole and put your $0.02 in right? How about fuck off?

That's the point here, YOU should have ignored the entire thread since you have no valuable advice to offer. But instead, you feel the need to tell everyone your opinion on something that had zero bearing on the conversation. I'm guessing your only human interaction is online and have no one at home to talk to. Surprise, surprise.

 

[BearGrounds]

You inherit certain traits, both physically and psychologically, from your parents/ancestors. But most of a persons psychological development is from environmental factors, and has little to do with biology.

Some of the factors that influence a child's psychological development include prenatal care and nutrition, childhood nutrition, maternal bonding, and parenting skill and style. Social status, area of upbringing, and wealth/poverty are also huge factors in this equation.

You also seem to be confusing what I said in my original post. I never said anything about whether or not it's better for children to be in a single or two parent family.

If you can find it, watch the documentary: Are all men philes? circa 2013. It gives a great insight into the way human beings are biologically wired.

Postnatal brain development, due to environmental factors, is a biological phenomena.

 

[Brandon Wilson]

That's the point here, YOU should have ignored the entire thread since you have no valuable advice to offer. But instead, you feel the need to tell everyone your opinion on something that had zero bearing on the conversation. I'm guessing your only human interaction is online and have no one at home to talk to. Surprise, surprise.

I didn't realize I needed your permission to post anything on sherdog. I'll absolutely make sure that before I post anything on this web forum ever again, that I get your express written consent Mr mjmj

And the ad hominem attack was great. Clearly I'm delaying with a superior intellect here.

 

[cincymma79]

Many girls use the pregnancy as an excuse to be fat for the rest of their lives.

I tell my girlfriends right away, if you get fat then I'm going to be an asshole because you care about how I treat you as much as I care about how you look. So if you want me to treat you fairly, then treat me fairly because men and women are attracted to different things and you don't get to have the best of me while being lazy and not letting me have the best of you. After that conversation, if they act like it shouldn't matter what they look like and I should love them no matter how they look, then it's over because they are guaranteed to get fat.

I have a friend who just stopped having sex with his wife over it and then set up a bedroom in his basement

 

[Oblivian]

Biologically speaking, we weren't meant to be in monogamous relationships. We we're meant to spread our seed and procreate. This monogamy shit is a human invention, created by the church.

You really do fit the stereotype of someone who would ask for an Amateur Fighter tag on a karate forum.

 

[Brandon Wilson]

You really do fit the stereotype of someone who would ask for an Amateur Fighter tag on a karate forum.

Oh look, another fucktard trying to put his $0.02 in.

And you spent money to post on a free forum. Bravo. Congratulations.

 

[Oblivian]

Oh look, another fucktard trying to put his $0.02 in.

And you spent money to post on a free forum. Bravo. Congratulations.

Is all of this anger since you are from a divorced household? Is this why you chose the glamorous life of fighting for free and bragging about it?

 

[MoparOrNoCar]

I have a friend who just stopped having sex with his wife over it and then set up a bedroom in his basement

Yeah see that's what I try to avoid.

 

[Brandon Wilson]

Is all of this anger since you are from a divorced household? Is this why you chose the glamorous life of fighting for free and bragging about it?

I'm sorry that you're fat. And poor. And feel that your life only has meaning by making 40k posts on an internet forum, and paying to do so.

I never bragged about anything, you're the one that seems to be obsessed about it. It's unhealthy to be honest. Seek medical help. If you can afford it that is.

 

[Fluffernutter]

Biologically speaking, we weren't meant to be in monogamous relationships. We we're meant to spread our seed and procreate. This monogamy shit is a human invention, created by the church.

I'm not sure I buy that.

Animals that only have one offspring at a time have a higher percentage of monogamy.

We are biologically wired to protect our offspring.

Because humans simply have less kids than other animals (or mammals), we need two adults present (parents) on guard to ensure that the offspring survives until they are old enough to procreate.

 

[Brandon Wilson]

I'm not sure I buy that.

Animals that only have one offspring at a time have a higher percentage of monogamy.

We are biologically wired to protect our offspring.

Because humans simply have less kids than other animals (or mammals), we need two adults present (parents) on guard to ensure that the offspring survives until they are old enough to procreate.

We used to live just like other animals, in large groups. So individuals were protected by the group.

 

[Samuraispiderma]

Damn that's weird because she seems to want you but is willing to cheat. When the relationships began, was it based on love or lust?

I asked this from others and I am trying to understand the cause of failed relationship and that if this is based on lust, sexuality and infatuation or was the beginning based on deep companionship?

Well, I think it was limerence on both our parts. The first one was sought after by my two brothers, but somehow she chose me even though I never went after her. She called and wrote me every day, and then asked if she could come visit me (I was an intern in internal medicine in Connecticut at the time, and she was in California.). I bought her a round-trip ticket, and she never went back. She asked me to marry her within a month after that. I wasn't that great a husband to that one. Was a little harsh to her because I couldn't understand how she could make so many mistakes that cost us ( e.g. ruined my credit, etc...). Towards the second wife, I was a saint. Didn't want to rock the boat because I didn't want to go through another divorce, but I think that made her lose respect for me and then grew out of love thereafter.

 

[Cole train]

So this thread got good we have already covered 4 themes in 3 pages

Divorce
Human biology and marriage
The question of is it smart to get an ammy tag on sherdog
The question of is making 40k posts on a forum a meaningful pursuit in life

Im interested what comes next, this thread is rolling nicely

 

[Brandon Wilson]

I'm not sure I buy that.

Animals that only have one offspring at a time have a higher percentage of monogamy.

We are biologically wired to protect our offspring.

Because humans simply have less kids than other animals (or mammals), we need two adults present (parents) on guard to ensure that the offspring survives until they are old enough to procreate.

Here are some articles about human monogamy for you to peruse if you're interested:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...y/201605/monogamy-is-not-natural-human-beings

https://www.livescience.com/32146-are-humans-meant-to-be-monogamous.html

https://www.bustle.com/articles/121...nogamous-heres-what-5-researchers-have-to-say