My grandfather (who raised me) is literally on deaths door at this very moment (just made the long drive north to say my goodbyes this weekend)
Whelp he has an infection on his dick and he's too old to get surgery (94) he's uncircumcised and the doctors say the biggest contributing cause was that.
Ironically he fucking beat covid somehow.
As for the whole child choice.
I've been on the fence about it since I first realized it may be a decision I have to make.
I'm the furthest thing from religious, it is basically genial mutilation, but I always contemplated it anyway for, let's say, social acceptance (I've heard many a girl throughout my life say they'd never touch an uncircumcised one)
Given this new info with my grandpa, it's mad things a little more foggy.