Uchi , I would love you to come check out my school , I'm two stripe black under Relson . I have competed in pro mma as well as Thai in Thailand . I think you would have a great time training and you might have a different mindset on what we do. If you are in Denver , check out Steve Hordencki . Or Phil Cardella down south . We all teach sport . As well as mma and self defense . Unless you have trained with us you don't have a good picture of how things are . You would be welcomed as a friend .