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Social Bill Maher: "How can a woman rape a man?"
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I remember a girl that had a rep for supposedly doing shit to guys when they passed out drunk. One guy claimed he woke up on the bathroom floor with her trying to get his pants off.
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Couldn't say. I remember her though. She was fat , short and had big fishbowl glasses. She was always at parties. You never know whats real and whats not but a few guys had stories like that.Maybe she was trying to get them back on.
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I've shared before, but I'll keep it shortish:
This was about 5 years ago. I was giving online dating a shot for the first time. Started talking to a girl, WAY out of my league. In the Navy, lived closed. Seemed pretty cool. We didn't talk very long before she invited me over for drinks.
When I showed up, she was just... off. I can't explain it, but I was uncomfortable. I chalked it up to anxiety and had a few drinks, hoping I would shake the feeling. I never did. After an hour or so, I decided I wasn't feeling it and told her as much. Told her I was leaving. She told me to wait a minute and went back into a bedroom. Instead of just bailing, I was an idiot and waited.
She came back out with a pistol and held it to my head as she basically did whatever she wanted to me.
I called the police afterwards but it wasn't taken seriously. For a few years after, she would text me randomly asking if I wanted to hang out. I never responded. More recently, she sent an email (I don't remember giving her an email address) apologizing for what happened. She had excuses. She wasn't well and was dealing with alcoholism and shit.
I still didn't respond. There is no excuse for what she did to me.
And for the record: This is an extreme case. Other guys are taken advantage of when they're drunk or sleeping. People (like Maher) have this weird idea that you only get erections when you're aroused, which isn't the case. All men know (or should know) that you can get erections triggered by all sorts of things, or even nothing at all. A lot of guys get pressured into sex, but no one really frowns upon that because we're men. We're supposed to want it. But we don't, not always, and manipulating someone into "giving in" is fucking gross.
People have this misconception of rape. That it has to be physically violent and brutal. That's how people like Joe Rogan and Bill Maher can say "men can't be raped by women", because in their brains, rape is when someone drags a woman into an alleyway and beats her half to death and rapes her. And a woman can't do that to a man.
But that's not the case. The vast majority of rape is perpetrated by someone the victim knows. Most rape accounts will be a story of how someone a woman trusted violated that trust, violated consent, and did what they wanted while the victim cried and begged for them to stop.
The same can and does happen to men, who are far less likely to report it because it isn't taken seriously. I had the threat of death on my head and the police did nothing.
And we can't just fight back. That's the thing that gets me. "If a woman tries to rape you, just fight back". Good, now I'll go to jail for domestic violence shit. Because how do you think the court will handle that? "Sir, what you're saying is that a woman tried to have sex with you and you initiated violent physical contact?" Yeah, that doesn't work out well. Another reason that men are often powerless in these situations.
I said I was going to keep this short but fuck this topic gets me heated.
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Wasn't expecting this. That's some pretty serious shit.
I see your point about not wanting to try and further it with the police, some slimy lawyer would have a field day with you.
Well, I think your example is a very extreme one, but it's a good example to present to people because this shit does happen to men too.
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My example is extreme, but that's not the only way it can happen.
But because of that event, I'm always infuriated when I hear people say that women can't rape men.
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FYI the song I replied to you with is real, based on what happened to lead singer Johnathan Davis.
Men are constantly either raped or pressured into sex and its dismissed by society due to standards much like in BEERs story.
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jesus christ what a psycho hosebeast! you would think shes could've gotten you to stay by simply begging you to fuck her face or some shit. i'd have caved!
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She's fucking nuts. I genuinely hope she got help like she alluded to, but I'll never as much as talk to her again.
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at least she only pulled the strap, and not the strap-on
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This shit again? Guys, I wasn't even there. Don't believe what he says.
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I'm not saying it's right for a an adult woman to have sex with young boys. I made that clear in my post. What I'm mainly talking about is 16 and 17 year olds having sex with women in their 20's. I agree with you 100% that anyone who's sexually abused before puberty, or while still young and in the early stages of puberty, will experience some degree of psychological damage that will follow them for the rest of their lives. I don't think it's right for a man or woman to seduce young boys or girls. It's wrong regardless of consent, because most young people are interested and curious about sex as soon as they start to hit puberty, or even before, but they aren't psychologically ready to participate in sex acts, and it's just wrong for someone older and in a position of power to exploit them. I only had one teacher that I ever thought of in a sexual way whatsoever, and that was when I was 11 or 12. Me and my friends talked about her all the time like we were ready fuck her, but if she has made any advance I most likely would have blew my load immediately and started crying like a baby. I can look back and think it wouldn't have caused any problems, but I understand how immature and innocent I was then compared to my adult self. I don't think there are many girls that age, who haven't been sexually abused, thinking about there older male teachers like that either though, so there is still a difference.
I think the evidence is clear about the things you stated in your post. Normal puberty is a hard time for a lot of people. It shapes a lot of permanent things about a persons sexuality. If you've been molested by someone of the same sex before puberty, or in the beginning, you're much more likely to obsess and focus on it once you start having sexual urges, and there's evidence that it does play a significant role in why some people are homosexual. That's a time where a lot of a persons sexual desires and fetish's develop, and it can range from common and harmless stuff, to the very weird but still harmless, or it can turn a person into a pedophile, rapist, or even serial killer. I'm sure genetics play a part as well, but I think it's pretty clear how important environment is now.
All I was saying in my previous post, is that there's an obvious biological difference between men and women when it comes to sex. I understand exactly what you're saying, but I hate it when people pretend there's not a huge difference in how men and women view sex and are affected by it. Most men can get drunk and sleep with an ugly woman they normally wouldn't have, and while they may regret it, they can usually move past it without it much psychological damage as long as it didn't result in an STD or pregnancy, but you see woman in a similar position go as far as claiming they were raped out of shame for doing something they regret. I think a major issue with why a lot of the women in Hollywood go crazy, especially as they get older, is from sleeping around and prostituting themselves for their career. Hollywood draws a lot of selfish people, and a lot of the women who are willing to prostitute themselves for their careers probably already had issues from abuse to begin with. I can't even watch porn anymore because all I think about is how emotionally damaged most of the women involved in it are. I think most of them were sexually abused as kids, and when I start thinking about them like that it's just depressing and completely ruins it for me.
I'm pretty sure you and me agree that the tranny bullshit that's being pushed on kids is child abuse, and will do a lot of psychological damage to these kids as they get older. It's really disgusting that there's not more outrage for that kind of abuse to stop. The damage that can occur during the formative years isn't something that can easily be fixed, and much of the time it can't be fixed, and ends in either direct suicide or suicide through substance abuse. Psychology tells us a lot more about the causes behind problems than it does on how to fix those problems unfortunately. That's why you don't fuck around with social experiments on kids like it's not a big deal, and I wish more people would start speaking up about that on the left and right. There seem to be plenty of left leaning voters who see it the same way as most of those on the right, but it's a different story when it comes to the democrat party. Just like most republican voters are more aligned with Trump's policy views than they are the republican establishment that still control most of the party outside of Trump and a few others. The establishment in both parties needs to be taken down.
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So...what's the answer? How can a woman rape a man?
1. He must be a physically inferior man.
2. He must be mentally weak
3. It's embarassing and he shouldt be called a man
4. Bitches can come rape me any day.
1. He must be a physically inferior man.
2. He must be mentally weak
3. It's embarassing and he shouldt be called a man
4. Bitches can come rape me any day.
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How can a woman rape a man? How can anyone be so stupid as to not know the answer?
