It worked out ok for you, but you were raped.
Just get annoyed by people saying dudes can't be raped. Biology is a thing. You don't have to be into it or want it to get hard.
Agreed. That's why I tell that story. Because it's a legitimate rape story by the legal definition and it follows all of the standard variations that women say happen to them.
Girl goes out with someone. Drinking, flirting all night, touching, etc. But at some point, she's not into it any more and wants to end the night. And the guy, for whatever reason, disregards that and forces a sexual exchange on the woman. Not violent force, just taking advantage of her compromised state.
Then a bunch of people who weren't there insist that the woman somehow was partially responsible for what happened. That she should have done something more. That she shouldn't have been alone. Whatever, it doesn't matter. To me it's all bullshit.
Because I know how little some of that matters. I was out with my brother. I went to bed alone. And just because I'd spent the time drunk and flirting, this chick felt okay going for hers. Like you said, it worked out fine for me but that's because it's a funny story for a guy. But what if this chick had an STD? What if she didn't put on a condom first? What if she'd gotten pregnant? Then I might feel the same type of violation that a woman feels in a similar situation.
So, I tend to lean towards defending women in these circumstances because I know how easy it is to be taken advantage of even if you're doing the "right" things.
My brother and I talked about how it happened despite him being there. He'd gone into his bedroom to smash out her friend and that's when the girl saw her opportunity. I've got a niece, that brother's daughter, and we're always talking about how to teach her this lesson and how to protect herself and to instill in her the idea that even if something happens, God forbid & knock on wood, it's not her fault.