Relationship Are you fine by yourself or do you need a girl?

[Versez]

Your true love is McDonald's

I’m slowly switching to A&W

 

[Osculater]

I’m slowly switching to A&W

I have heard good things about her

 

[Meatspin]

Despite being in a relationship now, I do fine by myself.

I agree with this, can handle being alone no issues.

 

[TeTe]

I'm okay either way. But I've always been of those people that is okay with being alone. I have no issue going on vacations, to concerts, etc alone.

I think some people would prefer living with a pain in ass woman that drives you nuts than be alone. But those are people who never had many options in their lives.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Sure, back in the 90s and 2000s I needed a girl. Now, with inflation and technology enhancements, all I need is my harem....

 

[SKYNET]

wants and needs are typically never the same

 

[Spounman]

Do you prefer being single living by yourself or do you need a girl with you?

I've been single off and on so many times. There's so many pros and cons that it's hard to pick which life is better.

life is easy when you're single but a bit boring and sometimes you need someone to drive you to the hospital or emergencies or something

but if got a girl, she can help you with all that but you have to share her problems as well.

I like both, it's hard to pick one over the other.

 

[RoastBeast]

In the modern world, I can get almost everything I would want to get from a relationship by being single and meeting women casually. The need for committed relationships is no longer relevant for me. Intimacy, sex, someone to hang out and do stuff with, etc. I can get all if it without having a girlfriend. Plus I don't need to deal with the hassle of maintaining a relationship with nagging, jealousy, arguments, etc. I don't want to get married and have kids so I have absolutely no reason to be in a relationship.

That doesn't mean I don't want women around. I enjoy the time i have alone, but I also appreciate the time I share with others. If it's a woman I can share intimacy with, even better.

I think you'll eventually reach an age where this type of life is no longer fulfilling and you'll have wished that you married a woman and started a family. I could be wrong but normally people get to a point in their lives where they already lived life for themselves and just aren't as excited as they once were about traveling, sex and new experiences are no longer new because you've covered everything already. At that point people usually turn to family for their happiness. Helping others, living vicariously through family members and being around the people you love take precedent over the selfishness of what we all chase when we're younger.

Not saying it's guaranteed it'll happen. Just saying that you may have a change of heart one day and depending on what that age is, you may be too old to fix it. Something to think about.

 

[Chaotic Progressor]

Am definitely fine by myself.

Love being in a relationship or dating too, but obviously has its downsides, lack of freedom, having to consider another person... they both got their pros and cons.

After my long-term relationship of like... 6 years - I went on like a pussy rampage and dated and fucked like hell for like... 2 years, just like, one night stands, hookers, flings (1-3 weeks), all sorts. Just bc it was like I was let loose. Had a lot of fun, a lot of drama, and like 2 serious-ish relationships from that period, both broke down due to my rampant alcoholism at the time. As did about 5 jobs in a row and my leg (SNAP!),

Been single now for about... 3 years. Just focused on getting myself into a good financial position and where I want to be now. Bc when I get into a 'ship, I tend to just focus too much on that, having fun and just like; I'm in my 30s now, I need to get my shit together, I can get any chick I set my mind to or who is right for me, when the time is right, not worried about it; loving my solo dolo vibes rn just tryna stack and save, nah mean player? word.

Plus jus like chillin', watching movies, mosying around, watching the fights, my weekends, shit's coo'. Will find a new chick when time is right.

 

[AGGAMEMNON66]

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[pugilistico]

I think you'll eventually reach an age where this type of life is no longer fulfilling and you'll have wished that you married a woman and started a family. I could be wrong but normally people get to a point in their lives where they already lived life for themselves and just aren't as excited as they once were about traveling, sex and new experiences are no longer new because you've covered everything already. At that point people usually turn to family for their happiness. Helping others, living vicariously through family members and being around the people you love take precedent over the selfishness of what we all chase when we're younger.

Not saying it's guaranteed it'll happen. Just saying that you may have a change of heart one day and depending on what that age is, you may be too old to fix it. Something to think about.

The lives I've seen and the life you're describing are quite different. Nobody I know enjoyed life in their youth and then got too old do it anymore. If anything they didn't enjoy life and regret not enjoying it more when they were younger and physically able to.

People say this about a lot of things. "You'll get to an age where you'll change your mind." I'm getting up there in age already and if anything life has lead me to believe more and more that marriage and family life isn't just for me. It's not like I never tried. And if it's not something I want now, it's not something I want now. It seems like the riskier move to get married (and force myself to like it) in the hopes of someday that this is what I wanted all along, than vice versa. Maybe someday I'll want it and it'll be too late to fix, but it'll be the hand that I have played.

I agree that helping others is the most fulfilling thing one can do, if not the most. Being around people you love, definitely. Not being in conventional relationships does not mean there is no love involved. We all need a tribe to belong too. Getting married does not gaurantee that.

 

[Kardashians]

Single for sure. I tried that relationship thing. What hell. I want my own space, nobody questioning what I do, doing what I want when I want, idk. I’m happier on my own by lot and the idea of being with anybody makes me wanna scream lmao.

 

[The Hash Slinging Slasher]

I can’t imagine living without my wife.

 

[Vampire life]

Short periods of time I’m cool alone

However life is better with a girl

As long as she isn’t an insufferable bitch

 

[Sonny Qc]

Sleeping alone sucks.
(No, not just sex)

But would be fine with doing everything else alone if that make any sense.

 

[Sweater of AV]

 

[volodya]

Yes, I’m fine with myself but the woman who carries my ring has it because she genuinely makes my life so much better. I used to just do my thing solo and didn’t care much. My feelings changed when I met the right one.

I don’t need somebody but I met the right somebody and I don’t want to do life without her. It took me years to find someone I feel this way about. I think I got very lucky. She’s cool as hell and she’s my best friend. She’s good with my elderly mom, she’s good with my friends and I honestly love having her around.

This reads like you left your sherdog tab open and it's her writing all that