Relationship Are you fine by yourself or do you need a girl?

[ObsoleteSoul]

Been living by myself for all of 2024 and it’s been the first time in 40 something years I’ve lived alone. I don’t really like it. I do the same stuff as I did when I was with the ex wife and kids, or my other ex, but now its just by my lonesome. Maybe I’m just accustomed to having people around all the time.

I like solo travel, but living by myself is a bit much. Though I better get used to it anyway… Not going to change for a minute. No sex is not the worst of it at all, I really just miss running errands with another person, and accomplishing goals together.

 

[William Huggins]

I've got to the point that I would be happy either way, although I have found someone special who I met only a year ago.

 

[Natural Order]

I'd be fine by myself at any age, as I'm very much a soloist by nature. Completely content by my own company.

But finding a wife and having two amazing kids has provided a purpose and love like no other. Highly recommended.

 

[Slothbroth]

Yes, I’m fine with myself but the woman who carries my ring has it because she genuinely makes my life so much better. I used to just do my thing solo and didn’t care much. My feelings changed when I met the right one.

I don’t need somebody but I met the right somebody and I don’t want to do life without her. It took me years to find someone I feel this way about. I think I got very lucky. She’s cool as hell and she’s my best friend. She’s good with my elderly mom, she’s good with my friends and I honestly love having her around.

I was talking to a guy about his divorce he was still going through and I remember him telling me how his wife had always been his best friend and then in the end she got really mean and was like a totally different person. I've met women who felt like they were my best friend at the time but later on they were cold as ice. Hopefully your relationship will be different.

 

[I Am Legion]

Having a mate is great if you have the right one. Being alone is fine for small periods, but in the long run I need people.

 

[Takes Two To Tango]

I've got to the point that I would be happy either way, although I have found someone special who I met only a year ago.

That's awesome my friend. I'm happy for you.

 

[ObsoleteSoul]

Having a mate is great if you have the right one. Being alone is fine for small periods, but in the long run I need people.

For a small time, it’s great. It can help clear one’s mind, and help reevaluate our life choices and goals. Though not having someone close is draining after awhile. I like doing things for people, and quite unfortunately, for better or worse, I get a lot of self-worth from doing things for them.

Took some time, but finally doing really great financially, and it’s only for me now. Some would love that, but I feel it’s almost pointless to have a lot and not have someone close to share it with. It’s a me problem in the end, but a problem nevertheless.

 

[Your Account]

Make a poll with AI sexdoll as option.

 

[AFanNotAFighter]

This sums it up for me.

 

[Versez]

I enjoyed both being alone and having a partner (twice each). It is hard to say too.

One thing I do not felt the same is that life is easier if you are single. There are three things that make life with a partner easier for me:
* Finances. My ex and my actual GF made about or a little more money than myself. That allowed us to have a great life with no financial stress.
* Ordinary stuff as groceries, cleaning, cooking etc. While I do most of those at home it is nice to have someone to cover you when you can't or don't want to.
* Sex: I'm a twice at week type of guy. Having someone in house and not having to go trough the meeting and dating saves a lot of time and energy

All of this is not true.

 

[pugilistico]

All of this is not true.

Definitely. When I was in relationships I had sex 5-10 times a week.

 

[Pliny Pete]

All I need is this lamp

 

[Osculater]

When I'm feeling lonely I usually hit up your mom

 

[Osculater]

Introverts are probably a lot more comfortable being single than extroverts. Selfish people also probably do better single (time,money,freedom). I'm both so I don't seek out dating.

 

[Osculater]

I was talking to a guy about his divorce he was still going through and I remember him telling me how his wife had always been his best friend and then in the end she got really mean and was like a totally different person. I've met women who felt like they were my best friend at the time but later on they were cold as ice. Hopefully your relationship will be different.

Shit it has happened to me, fvck them hoes!

 

[Osculater]

All of this is not true.

Your true love is McDonald's

 

[Osculater]

All I need is this lamp

Amber Lamps

 

[Berserker13]

Can't live with them, can't live without them...

 

[lowlife]

I do much better on my own; recently figured that out after a lifetime of being in one relationship or another including ten years married. At this point I don't think I'm willing to ever be in a serious committed relationship again.

 

[Protectandserve]

Relationships are good when things are going well. But when things aren’t, all the benefits of them disappear.

Despite being in a relationship now, I do fine by myself.