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Anyone actually get laid on tinder?

I was for a bit but it eventually got weird.

When they cracked down on prostitution and websites like craigslist escort services out here just went on Tinder. Meeting actual women became a bit more of a pain in the ass cuz theres a bunch of trash, fake profiles, or straight up hookers on there. It probably isnt like this everywhere Im sure its because I live next to a major city.


I havent been on since before covid started though. Who knows whats going on up in there now?
 
Garnet_StrongerThanYou said:
I’ve slept with a lot of women on Tinder as well.

Easily around 30 in about 3 years.

But it’s been a bit dry for me lately too since COVID.

Maybe too many people are using it at once.

You should practice hollering at random girls in public the way us black guys do.

It works on the younger ones especially. They’ll just come back to your house and smoke a joint and have sex with you. You don’t have to to take them on dates or anything or spend money.

You’d be shocked how many 18-22 year old girls are just casually having sex with 30+ year old men.
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30 in 3 years is a lot?
 
Garnet_StrongerThanYou said:
Jeez Wilt Chamberlain I didn’t know I was messing with the big dogs here.

Im average looking at best and I have a kid to raise. I think I’m doing okay for myself.

I think you overestimate how much poon your average guy is slaying.
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I'm old sorry.........we didn't have apps to find girls when I was young.

But 10 a year isn't a very good score......... sorry.
 
CaptHANDSUP said:
I dont have anything else to try. I cant go and meet women irl unless i go into bars by myself since my friends dont want to go out. Tried every dating app and tried every possible approach in these apps.

The last thing i can actually solve/change is replaying more quickly. These days i feel so much ptsd messaging girls that sometimes i take between 1-5 days to replay to them. But i dont think thatll be enough. I was already doing that the first 2-3 years and even then i barely got anything.

I think i have a bit of aspergers which makes it really hard for me to communicate with people unless i can see their face/body language. Even irl im quite awkward but thats where most of my hookups have happened so i must be worse on the internet.
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Coming across as a chill, cool and desirable guy sounds hard but I think it’s way easier then it seems. Sorry to make light of your situation but I think if you work on your approach, you can still do well.

If you have any pictures of you doing fun stuff like travelling, being with dogs, boating, at a concert with friends ECT use those as your pics. Even if you don’t look all that great, it’ll make you look like a fun guy to ne around with diverse interests.

Women also don’t tend to want to talk too much on there. It’s easier said than done but try to come across as chill, laid back and not too pushy. A good profile will do a lot of work for yoy already IMO.
 
You are ugly, you don’t have a nice body or you post pictures that make you look lame
 
Simian Raticus said:
Just my experience, but I've found that women on tinder want you to move things forward.

I don't mean come out of the gate swinging with the "let's fuck" talk, but just don't fuck around too long with the chit-chat. They're on there because they wanna meet guys. So offer to meet up. A simple coffee is a very easy, non-threatening first encounter.
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this guy gets it ^^

moreover, it sounds like you’re feeling dejected, with expectations not being met. Not sure if this related to your breakup. But Tinder is full of people who don’t have any intention of meeting up, especially REALLY hot women, which you are matching with; they use Tinder out of boredom and attention, looking for an outrageously specific person. Just relax. Things will work out.
 
Simian Raticus said:
Just my experience, but I've found that women on tinder want you to move things forward.

I don't mean come out of the gate swinging with the "let's fuck" talk, but just don't fuck around too long with the chit-chat. They're on there because they wanna meet guys. So offer to meet up. A simple coffee is a very easy, non-threatening first encounter.
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"Hi, I'm _____. Would you like to have coffee?"

This is my go to line and it's worked for me with some pretty women. I unmatch if they put up any resistance at all like saying 'I don't drink coffee' or something dumb like that. Obviously the meeting is not about the beverage.

Sometimes I clarify that I'm only looking for someone who I can be physically intimate with. I've had decent results overall but ya, it doesn't always work out.

I don't want to waste time on a lot of texting. I'll give a brief intro if they want but if they're not ready to meet in public after that then I move on.
 
Not to criticize you bud, but your posts here have some misspellings in them, and if this is how you message in Tinder, it could eliminate you as an option for some chicks. I know it sounds superficial, but any half-decent chick receives millions of messages, so they just automatically quickly filter out based on silly things like height and grammar.
 
CaptHANDSUP said:
Been using tinder for 6-7 years now and spoke to 2000 or more women and only got laid three times.
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"Let that go Randleman, try something else" - Quinton 'Rampage' Jackson (6/20/04)
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Robocok said:
"Hi, I'm _____. Would you like to have coffee?"

This is my go to line and it's worked for me with some pretty women. I unmatch if they put up any resistance at all like saying 'I don't drink coffee' or something dumb like that. Obviously the meeting is not about the beverage.

Sometimes I clarify that I'm only looking for someone who I can be physically intimate with. I've had decent results overall but ya, it doesn't always work out.

I don't want to waste time on a lot of texting. I'll give a brief intro if they want but if they're not ready to meet in public after that then I move on.
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You say your name? Isnt it weird to say your name right off the bat when they already learned your name when you matched?

And i cant help but feel like there is no way thatd work even one time. It just seems too easy and i feel like girls want to force you to jump through at least one or two hoops before they meet up.

I am going to try this after we get out of lockdown with the first 10 matches but i dont think a single one will replay.
 
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CaptHANDSUP said:
You say your name? Isnt it weird to say your name right off the bat when they already learned your name when you matched?

And i cant help but feel like there is no way thatd work even one time. It just seems too easy and i feel like girls want to force you to jump through at least one or two hoops before they meet up.

I am going to try this after we get out of lockdown with the first 10 matches but i dont think a single one will replay.
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Sometimes I have to go through 20 or even 30 matches to get that meeting. Other times I get 5+ all agreeing at the same time. When it rains it pours. I still like to introduce myself. I use the same line on both tinder and pof.

I don't jump through any hoops. I don't spend money. If I have to do either of those things, this is a sign of either medium or low interest imo which I find to be a turn off.

I have had some beautiful women who I've dated using my approach so I look at it like it just wasn't meant to be if they won't meet me for coffee. If a girl is attracted to you, she will go along with it.

I'm happy with my results overall. It's a numbers game. Good luck
 
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My last conversation on tinder:

Her bio: i sit in bed and watch soccer

Me fri 4pm: messi number 1?

Her fri 11pm: mm
Gigi buffon number 1

Me sat 11am: I heard somewhere that dudes been italy's keeper since ww2

Her sat 4pm: lmaaaooooo
Because he is genuinely the best
Not anymore tho he old
Hows ur book going

Me sat 11pm: almost done
Do you believe in evolution?

She never replied.

My bio is:
"Big penis, no personality. Dont objectify me please.

Currently reading: Neanderthals Rediscovered"
 
CaptHANDSUP said:
My last conversation on tinder:

Her bio: i sit in bed and watch soccer

Me fri 4pm: messi number 1?

Her fri 11pm: mm
Gigi buffon number 1

Me sat 11am: I heard somewhere that dudes been italy's keeper since ww2

Her sat 4pm: lmaaaooooo
Because he is genuinely the best
Not anymore tho he old
Hows ur book going

Me sat 11pm: almost done
Do you believe in evolution?

She never replied.

My bio is:
"Big penis, no personality. Dont objectify me please.

Currently reading: Neanderthals Rediscovered"
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Shouldn't have disrespected my boy Gigi like that.


<{hughesimpress}>

Some people take Soccer very seriously.
 
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