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Anyone actually get laid on tinder?

I did it for 6-7 months years back and got laid a LOT. Gotta change it up bro.
 
I use cupid to bang fatties during dry spells. Never tried tinder.
 
3 out of 2000 is pretty good if you're just trying to score.
 
WTF? Can’t get laid with Tinder? Jesus. I feel sorry for you. You need to have somebody teach you how to talk with women.
 
When I was single I'd hop on for an hour or 2 get 2 or 3 girl lined up to come over. Then I'd deactivate the account. Usually one would cancel
 
Dilute the pool. Make a bunch of fake accounts of really hot girls. Your male competition will go after the decoys and the girls ur going after will wonder why theyre not getting as much messages as usual so they will search up their competition and see your fake accounts and lose confidence comparing themselves and thus more likely to settle for you.

I didnt invent this method I saw it in a video and lmao. On paper it looks pretty good though.
 
Don't even bother with the free tier. Most girls on Tinder are there to get Instagram followers anyway. Pay Tinder Gold, match back with the girls that like you and use the Super Likes on the ones that interest you. Super Likes mean you're probably on the paid tier or that you really liked her and either way it rises your chances of success by a lot. The money you pay is worth the hassle of looking through thousands of profiles.

And up your texting game ffs!
 
Goimg to throw you a softball of truth here. Most women on tinder or any dating app are just looking for attention. Thats why you get ghosted you're a serotonn bump for Few days maybe a dopamine sexting. They have 100 other guys offering the same yes even the ugly or fat ones. Try different methods be straight up about what you want , lie and use them for a hookup. None of it matters.
I usually get laid off plenty of fish but one chick ghostede on pof then contacted me on tinder and i got laid just that once off there.
 
I have but they're always lower quality than what I get in real life so I stopped all the apps years ago.
 
My last job had me traveling to different cities and states for sometimes weeks at a time.

And yes I got laid on Tinder. Sometimes more than once a day.
 
You sound desperate. Women do NOT like that. Your friends don’t go out into public? The fuck is that. You need new friends and a complete makeover. I only charge $999.99 a month for extensive online workshops that will get you guaranteed pussy 3-5 times a month minimum. You will be the tinder king bro your dick will be coughing up puffs up smoke by the time you are done with my 12 month program. Dm me
 
Tone C said:
Give Grndr a go , I hear it's easy to get laid on there...
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Since that dude got busted with the Pre-op twink FTM transition , it might not be a bad idea. Just age verify first.

and make sure to stress the pre op part.
 
fingercuffs said:
Know what worked for a friend of mine? I told him to put in his profile that he wasn't looking for a relationship, just straight up no strings sex. No coffee, no dinner and a movie, just a quick video call so you know they're not some 60 year old called Bob, meet and fuck.

It worked wonders.
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Years back me and my roommate used to see who could be more ruthless on POF.

Profile pic was me and my ex.

Chicks would ask why she was in it.

I would respond , to let you see what I can bang anytime I want if you don’t put out fast enough.

Shit worked wonders.
 
Yes.

But, I also stopped using it four years ago.
 
CaptHANDSUP said:
Been using tinder for 6-7 years now and spoke to 2000 or more women and only got laid three times. I was in a relationship with one of them for 2.5 years so at least i had that going for me.

It seems there are two types of guys on tinder, the few that are pulling in chicks 24/7 and the many who couldnt even meet one girl no matter how hard they tried.

These two groups exist irl interactions too but it seems like the gap between them is much bigger on tinder.

I am part of the latter group, the worst part is i actually regularly match with a lot of really hot girls (9s) and get a lot of matches in general but i can never get them to meet irl before getting ghosted. I dont have the social skills for it.

It really feels like torture matching with someone everytime and starting the conversation knowing you will eventually get ghosted but you have to keep doing it because you have no other means to meet women since your friends dont want to go out into public.

It feels like that endless nightmare were you are running up the stairs hoping to reach the top but you never do, you keep running until you are so exhausted that you are crawling but you still cant stop moving, because you have to reach the top. But you never do. I had this nightmare regularly for a couple of years. To the point where later on i would realize i am in the dream and id start to panic because id know i would have to run up the stairs until my feet get worn down to their bones. Luckily i dont have that dream anymore.

Sometimes i just hope i get ghosted on the first message because i know how much worst it feels to get ghosted later on when you have dedicated a lot of time and energy into this person and maybe even formed a bit of an attachment. And i think out of the 2000+ women i spoke to, only 2-3 said we are not a good match and shouldnt talk anymore. Every other one just stopped replying one day, no explanation or anything. Even the ones you talked to for weeks or months just one day stop replaying.

Edit: a lot of people saying i must be ugly but if i was i wouldnt even make this thread. Id understand why i am not getting laid and give up. I get a fuck ton of matches and most of them are 7.5+ with a good deal of 9s. I dont like to go on the internet and claim i am really good looking but i need to point that out to put this thread into context.
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One of my friends is 37 and regularly bangs hot girls in their 20s from the apps.

He says he never does more than 3 messages, a quick hello mentioning something from their profile then when they respond immediately meet for coffee or a drink.

If they're keen he's away, if they want a prolonged text chat he moves on to the next.

If theyre wanting to go out on dates there's no point beating around the bush.
 
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