I remember presenting it to my wife.
"Ok, honey. I'm going to sell my golf clubs. That will pay for a few gis and all the stuff I need, videos and what not. I played golf twice a month, at least. That was over $100 a month easy, so that covers the tuition. As for time, when I played golf, I'd be gone for six hours minimum, so that's 12 hours a month, but we both know that I'd usually play 3 times a month....or 18 hours. Well, that's about 12 classes....so it'll be the same, but as you know, I never take the kids with me to golf. They have a place for the kids at this gym, so I'll take them with me."
For the most part, all that ended up being true. Of course, I go a bit more than 12 classes a month. More like 16 to 20, but I can do a lot of them while she's working anyway (so it doesn't eat away at her family time) or on nights when I want to encourage her to go swim (she loves that), since we won't be home anyway.
"youth and skill are no match for old age and treachery."
I've been an ultimate couch potato for 25 years. Three months ago, I started to take Judo classes and a month ago I started to take BJJ as well. I train Judo-BJJ twice a week and sub wrestling once a week. People around me still thinks I'm crazy to do this at my age (mid-forties).
My body feels like it's been run over by a Mack truck but my mind has never been more clear. Right now, I'm concentrating on the basics and just learning how to survive on the mat. The younger guys at my gym really help me out--they don't cut me any slack but they always offer tips and advices. Hopefully, I can provide something to those guys as well.
I think training has really gave me a "re-birth" of sort...I feel alive. I now have a new goal:become a black belt in both Judo and BJJ. Heck, maybe I'll even compete if there's a tournament that has a "senior" catagory.
I also started running eight months ago. Since then, I ran two half-marathons. Someone in my running group told me that a person is never too old to run but will get old if he doesn't run. I think that's true for me in my Judo-BJJ journey...
I'll train as long as my body can handle it...if my body can't handle it then I'll still show up at the gym and do what I can.