@Blayt7hh
You have the burden of proof since you made the claim but here is a refutation.
I know you are struggling so I'm going to help out. I dont think I should be doing your work for you though because its basic work you should have already done for a guy so certain about a thing...
a girl raised in a right wing bigoted household has only heard one side of the story but because of this sacrifice she reads up more and changes her position.
a boy raised by left wing progressives is taught that its a genocide and that the Jews are totally wrong. this man immolates himself sparking a genuine curiosity in the subject that leads to a more nuanced view and she comes to see both sides.
a boy in india who didn't even know about this issue AT ALL hears about this sacrifice... becomes moved by and and then educated about it and comes out with an opinion.
someone who has already looked into it is MOVED emotionally by this sacrifice and thinks "maybe I better think more about this" and the sacrifice lessens pride and arrogance due to the gravity of it. he thinks about the subject more emotionally neutral. in fact he did not even recognize that emotion was a part of his initial position until the sacrifice knocked it out of him. but now his position is changed deeply from coming in more neutral and taking the situation more seriously all sparked by this mans sacrifice..
a woman with a fixed position is moved by the sacrifice and although her position is the same she is sickened by the way people discuss it and the lack of depth, empathy or even basic human caring going on around the subject. she was part of that callousness but is deeply changed by his sacrifice changing not her position but the entire way she carries herself and speaks about the subject. she is changed deeply by this and becomes interested in the concept of sacrifice for the greater good and goes on to emulate this principle in her life and becomes a saint.
need I really go on man? because I could go on all night.....