A gift of very expensive jewelry ~ I couldn't accept, psychological reason?

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  1. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    I was offered a gift of the very expensive kind but I could not convince myself into accepting it, I'm not even quite sure myself why, but it felt all wrong o_O ~ Made the person return it for a full refund.
    (Hopefully actually did it)...

    Can somebody give me a psychological reason for why this happened?
     
  2. Bubzeh Silver Belt

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    Which Sherdogger was this?
     
  3. JabToucher Banned Banned

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    What did you do to said person to make you feel bad accepting the gift?
     
  4. Threetrees BLM

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    Did they ask you to put out for it
     
  5. cmw43 Bad Boys Club

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    Engagement ring?
     
  6. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    Pretty sure most Sherdoggers frown upon spending money on girls :rolleyes:
     
  7. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    NO, a super shiny golden necklace o_O
     
  8. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    Nah, nothing like that.
     
  9. Threetrees BLM

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    Shoulda copped that shit then
     
  10. Steve Rogers Mistress Kate's slave Banned

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    Ya shoulda just accepted the damn gift.
     
  11. C-H-L Cool Hand (Just the Flu)ke

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    did you subconsciously think he was expecting sex in return?
     
  12. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    Somebody I've been working with for a while,
    he said he wanted to give me it as a thanks for helping him reach his weight goal in 2019 -- I was just so surprised he would be so impulsive and buy that?
     
  13. Kal Drago Emo Star Belt

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    Don't worry, you're just not that into him. When you find a guy you want to permanently enslave you'll have no problem taking that shiny piece of loot.
     
  14. JabToucher Banned Banned

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    You provided gains, he provided the gift. I'd accept.
     
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  16. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    A golden necklace is kinda a romantic gift from a guy to a girl isn't it? Wearing that would be weird, I'm mulling over it...
     
  17. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    :D When you put it like that <Lmaoo>
     
  18. Steve Rogers Mistress Kate's slave Banned

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    Ah, I didn't read that post. Yeah, that's weird.
     
  19. GSP_37 Titanium Belt

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    Expensive gift refused because intended receiver doesn't want the giver to act like he/she "owns" the receiver because of the gift. Quid pro quo.
     
  20. Clementine If you're sad, add more lipstick and attack :D :D

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    It was several thousand dollars spent tho, like who just goes out and buys that to somebody you're not in a relationship with? o_O
    He is a sweet guy! Put it just put me on the spot it felt :eek:
     

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