A gift of very expensive jewelry ~ I couldn't accept, psychological reason?

[Luthien]

I was offered a gift of the very expensive kind but I could not convince myself into accepting it, I'm not even quite sure myself why, but it felt all wrong ~ Made the person return it for a full refund.
(Hopefully actually did it)...

Can somebody give me a psychological reason for why this happened?

 

[DC23]

Which Sherdogger was this?

 

[JabToucher]

What did you do to said person to make you feel bad accepting the gift?

 

[Threetrees]

Did they ask you to put out for it

 

[cmw43]

I was offered a gift of the very expensive kind but I could not convince myself into accepting it, I'm not even quite sure myself why, but it felt all wrong ~ Made the person return it for a full refund.
(Hopefully actually did it)...

Can somebody give me a psychological reason for why this happened?

Engagement ring?

 

[Luthien]

Which Sherdogger was this?

Pretty sure most Sherdoggers frown upon spending money on girls

 

[Luthien]

Engagement ring?

NO, a super shiny golden necklace

 

[Luthien]

Did they ask you to put out for it

Nah, nothing like that.

 

[Threetrees]

Nah, nothing like that.

Shoulda copped that shit then

 

[Steve Rogers]

I was offered a gift of the very expensive kind but I could not convince myself into accepting it, I'm not even quite sure myself why, but it felt all wrong ~ Made the person return it for a full refund.
(Hopefully actually did it)...

Can somebody give me a psychological reason for why this happened?

Ya shoulda just accepted the damn gift.

 

[Cool Hand Luke]

I was offered a gift of the very expensive kind but I could not convince myself into accepting it, I'm not even quite sure myself why, but it felt all wrong ~ Made the person return it for a full refund.
(Hopefully actually did it)...

Can somebody give me a psychological reason for why this happened?

did you subconsciously think he was expecting sex in return?

 

[Luthien]

What did you do to said person to make you feel bad accepting the gift?

Somebody I've been working with for a while,
he said he wanted to give me it as a thanks for helping him reach his weight goal in 2019 -- I was just so surprised he would be so impulsive and buy that?

 

[Kal Drago]

Don't worry, you're just not that into him. When you find a guy you want to permanently enslave you'll have no problem taking that shiny piece of loot.

 

[JabToucher]

Somebody I've been working with for a while,
he said he wanted to give me it as a thanks for helping him reach his weight goal in 2019 -- I was just so surprised he would be so impulsive and buy that?

You provided gains, he provided the gift. I'd accept.

 

[Merlotte's]

Rude

 

[Luthien]

Ya shoulda just accepted the damn gift.

A golden necklace is kinda a romantic gift from a guy to a girl isn't it? Wearing that would be weird, I'm mulling over it...

 

[Luthien]

Don't worry, you're just not that into him. When you find a guy you want to permanently enslave you'll have no problem taking that shiny piece of loot.

When you put it like that <Lmaoo>

 

[Steve Rogers]

A golden necklace is kinda a romantic gift from a guy to a girl isn't it? Wearing that would be weird, I'm mulling over it...

Ah, I didn't read that post. Yeah, that's weird.

 

[GSP_37]

Expensive gift refused because intended receiver doesn't want the giver to act like he/she "owns" the receiver because of the gift. Quid pro quo.

 

[Luthien]

You provided gains, he provided the gift. I'd accept.

It was several thousand dollars spent tho, like who just goes out and buys that to somebody you're not in a relationship with?
He is a sweet guy! Put it just put me on the spot it felt