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66% of young men are reporting zero sexual activity

Its the damn cell phones and the computer games, back in my day you had to go outside and meet people and make friends and learn how to interact with each other and build the skills that lead to relationships and physical contact

Now its possible to have friends and constant social interaction with people from all over the world without ever leaving your bedroom so a lot of young people arent getting over their social anxieties and learning the simple little lessons of life, like the world aint so scary and chicks want you to talk to them, which is how you end with stats like that and a generation of incels

For the men willing to go out and still do it the old fashioned way, a buffet of delight awaits them so take your shot, young homie, you'll be glad you did
It’s definitely this. And the fact that being always online also means a lot of people are always on call for work, and expected to work around the clock.

But either way, both reasons are due to tech.

I was one of those people who didn’t want to believe that was it for the longest time. But I have heard a lot of compelling arguments lately which have changed my mind.

The whole world is connected now, but somehow everyone is lonelier than ever before.
 
Its the damn cell phones and the computer games, back in my day you had to go outside and meet people and make friends and learn how to interact with each other and build the skills that lead to relationships and physical contact

Now its possible to have friends and constant social interaction with people from all over the world without ever leaving your bedroom so a lot of young people arent getting over their social anxieties and learning the simple little lessons of life, like the world aint so scary and chicks want you to talk to them, which is how you end with stats like that and a generation of incels

For the men willing to go out and still do it the old fashioned way, a buffet of delight awaits them so take your shot, young homie, you'll be glad you did

Im going to agree with you mostly on this, but also disagree from my own perspective...


Back in my youths, I ran a BBS (bulletin board system) on a Commodore 64 and a 1200bps modem.
Basically the precursor to the internet as we know it today.

BECAUSE I was an introvert and had few friends, my online friends often times became my IRL acquaintances (and sometimes even friends).

I distinctly remember the very first person I met IRL that was a fellow BBSer host - Dr. Mindbender (aka Matt) - Strange AF but a lesson on "You never know who is on the other end of the line"
I also met another kid screen named 'Son of Sam' (aka Carlos) - I took the city bus across town to meet him and wish I hadn't. If he's not in prison now, I would be highly surprised.
And then one of my friends to this day - The only person (IRL) who I have met whos name is 'Liberty'. His parents ran a Compuserve phone bank that allowed for up to 8 users to dial in at the same time (therefore creating one of the earliest chat rooms)

But even then I always strived to hang out with the regulars that I would BS with.
Different times.

Latchkey Lives Matter
 
Look at the dynamic though - men in there early 20s more or less spend time establishing themselves, working towards a career and improving there life for later.

Women are a stark contrast to this in the modern day, they spend most of there 20s on there cellphone on tinder/hinge/pof/snapchat/instagram/facebook getting ran through by older men, acquiring baby daddies and baggage.

These same women reach there 30s with nothing but baggage and a sense of entitlement and a desire to “settle down” to get at your wealth but in reality if these women couldn’t be trusted with a cellphone in there 20s nothing will change in there 30s. (This goes for the ugly ones too, they also have entitlement)

Men reach there 30s and are ready to settle down, established ready to start a family with a nice young woman. No guy who spent a decade working his ass off to get to where he is wants to lose it all to some entitled skank and someone best years are far behind them.
Of course you get exceptions to this rule like Ian Fairy but for the most part this is how any normal man is thinking in the modern day.
 
Its the damn cell phones and the computer games, back in my day you had to go outside and meet people and make friends and learn how to interact with each other and build the skills that lead to relationships and physical contact

Now its possible to have friends and constant social interaction with people from all over the world without ever leaving your bedroom so a lot of young people arent getting over their social anxieties and learning the simple little lessons of life, like the world aint so scary and chicks want you to talk to them, which is how you end with stats like that and a generation of incels

For the men willing to go out and still do it the old fashioned way, a buffet of delight awaits them so take your shot, young homie, you'll be glad you did
Big facts. Like Wayne Gretzsky said you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
 
It's definitely possible if the guy is around various women regularly as girls will shoot their shot at getting an attractive male. The guy just needs to routinely be somewhere it can happen organically. But really, 4 or 5 is a lot. It takes effort and a good memory to be able to remember details and juggle that many girls without them finding out about each other. The hard part isn't getting the women, it's dealing with the fact you are juggling 5 women.

Men will be men though, and will still fuck the uglies even if they aren't desperate if it's available.

Money will always beat out attractiveness. Fucking an attractive guy isn’t as attractive to them as being with an incredibly rich man and potentially walking away with some of his wealth.

Indecent proposal wouldn’t have been a movie if that rich dude asked his wife to fuck instead of Woody Harrelson that’s for sure, and not because she said no to him 🤣
 
I get the impression many knuckle babies died in the making of this thread.
 
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