How much worse is this going to get
The 80/20 rule is becoming true
The top 20% of men are getting 80% of the hottest women
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It is not only the 80% of the hottest women. It is 80% of ALL women, who are out dating and looking for sex.
The biggest change Internet App dating fostered was not giving good looking and reasonable looking guys with game access to the best looking women, as they always had that.
The biggest change was that within that group of guys, there has always been a percentage who want sex each and every night and are more than willing to get it from someone they consider ugly, if that is the only option and they do not have to work for it.
Historically that meant picking from any girl hanging around the bar after last call who was ready and willing and hoping for a good looking guy who would take her home, as he had no other options.
Today with App's those same guys can and do offer the bottom 80% of women a night with them but they do so offering them nothing in exchange. No date, and just some banter constantly inviting the gal to show up and then it is right to sex as he has no interest beyond that.
The less attractive women who historically would have went with a guy who was more a peer is deluded into thinking that this guy talking to her, is interested, and can be won over. That she can get a date and maybe a relationship, and even as she buckles and goes over knowing it will just be sex, she still thinks and hopes for more.
She then gets fucked only with zero follow up after.
If you speak to the women who fall into that pattern (most women online dating imo) they will say to you 'oh the App is for hookups only', as that is what they ended up getting, is sex with no follow up, because they are chasing guys who are not peers. The 80% of men who are mostly ignored (it is about 60% actually) are interested in dates and relationships but they simply cannot get noticed as the women are chasing UP.
That is also why you will hear the women say 'they should not have to settle' regardless of her looks or physical shape as she believes the engagement she can get from that percentage in the top 20% means she is in that grouping and just has not found the right one who is interested in a relationship, instead of just the hookup. She sees a good looking women dating or married to one of those guys and assumes she just found the 'right relationship type' in that group and that she has just been unlucky so far to only find the hook up type. She is in denial that she is simply not the type to get that relationship in that group and can only get 'last call' type sex.
