66% of young men are reporting zero sexual activity

[fingercuffs]

I don't even know what happened to that one?

I don't remember seeing him post anything crazy or racist or going after anyone? Maybe it was a feelings room thing?

Fucked if I know, it's funny since he came back I think he's had me on ignore being he used to go apeshit at me and while I didn't complain I think a few people here wound him up so much he couldn't handle it and went spastic.

 

[blackdudebro]

Damn…

 

[Contempt]

Fucked if I know, it's funny since he came back I think he's had me on ignore being he used to go apeshit at me and while I didn't complain I think a few people here wound him up so much he couldn't handle it and went spastic.

Ahh fair enough... some people take this karate forum way too seriously I guess.

 

[liner]

All I know is what me and my son has going on. He's 15, has had 2 girlfriends, been on dates with 4 girls, and isn't a virgin. I tell him to ask out the girls he likes and to not be afraid of rejection as it's a numbers game. He does and it works for him. He's also a big pc gamer and he has real friends he plays pc with and hangs out with. it's the same with his friends. Theyve all had girlfriends.

Maybe if this 66% thing is true, it means the boys/men willing to put in the work of talking to girls/women just have much better odds. I've been back in the game for about 6 months and I've asked out around 15 women, not using apps or going to bars. 4 successes. Not bad I think. Not being afraid of rejection is key. If you are afraid of that I'd assume it's easy to not try. These 66% just need to practice talking to women and it gets easier and easier

One of my women friends told me she likes when a guy shows interest and just asks her out, and this approach works pretty well. It's simple.

 

[Ogata]

Just have them take a trip outside the west like Japan or even just Japanese culture centers. Tons of drop dead gorgeous women. Lot of them being older ones. Not just Japan but other Asian countries or South American countries as well. Best to find a culture of your preference, learn their language and just go from there. Maybe a visit to an Indian Ashram to learn Yoga or Kalaripayattu or Mallakhamb.

I think this is important for young men not just for dating but they need to develop a sense of adventure and exploration of other cultures to gain perspective. Learning language will allow them an opportunity to engage socially and learning new skills is good for their cognitive ability and allows them to be sharper.


This is what young men need. It can also open new doors of opportunity for work or business.

 

[Noveltymortar]

I feel sorry for todays generation of young men. Coming up in the 80's and 90's I had very little game but still did OK. Playing by todays rules I'd be a suicidal virgin.

 

[SalvadorAllende]

I’m retired from this. I had my fair share of women. But I’ve heard you had a harem of men ? Interesting

Weren't you and one of your boys the ones who got sexually asaulted by canadian natives?

 

[GordoBarraBJJ]

they probably drive cyber trucks

 

[Wrath of Foamy]

I don't talk enough about this outside of the internet, so I don't have a good perspective on it, but I'd go with a combination of poorer overall health and a lack of social activities leading to poor self esteem and anxiety issues.

I also think that excessive porn use and erectile dysfunction is a bigger issue than what is being reported.

 

[William Huggins]

Also, what is the 80/20 rule? Isn't that the meat to fat ratio for a burger?

A yummy burger!!!

 

[William Huggins]

Just have them take a trip outside the west like Japan or even just Japanese culture centers. Tons of drop dead gorgeous women. Lot of them being older ones. Not just Japan but other Asian countries or South American countries as well. Best to find a culture of your preference, learn their language and just go from there. Maybe a visit to an Indian Ashram to learn Yoga or Kalaripayattu or Mallakhamb.

I think this is important for young men not just for dating but they need to develop a sense of adventure and exploration of other cultures to gain perspective. Learning language will allow them an opportunity to engage socially and learning new skills is good for their cognitive ability and allows them to be sharper.


This is what young men need. It can also open new doors of opportunity for work or business.

Where's the adventure in people anymore.......

 

[Mack Yancy]

But so it means 20% of men are fucking all the women?

They always have been.

 

[KBE6EKCTAH_CCP]

They always have been.

What kind of weird shit is that. This would mean that one guy is getting passed around by 5 women on average.

 

[Contempt]

What kind of weird shit is that. This would mean that one guy is getting passed around by 5 women on average.

It's a tough job... but somebody's got to do it.

 

[KBE6EKCTAH_CCP]

It's a tough job... but somebody's got to do it.

But it doesn‘t make sense. Top 20% dudes would not even give the bottom 20% uglies the time of day. And instead would be competing for the top say 40% of girls. That s still 2 girls for 1 dude.

You really think the bottom 20 to 40% unfucked uglies would then settle for no calk? I don t think so. They settle for bottom dudes as well. That s how the mating market has always worked. I find it strange that anyone would believe this 20/80 shit.

 

[William Huggins]

I think what they're saying is that dating apps have just made the situation far worse.

Women will go for the best they can get, but very few understand the difference between a man willing to be in an actual relationship as opposed to someone that just fucks them because it's on offer.

I just see lots of single lonely people now days or couples looking at everything else other than the person they're with.....

Cities don't help, they seem to bring out the worst in people, opportunistic.

 

[Versez]

Weren't you and one of your boys the ones who got sexually asaulted by canadian natives?

We don’t have the same definition … we got into a fight. It’s my friend who got his pants unzipped

 

[Contempt]

But it doesn‘t make sense. Top 20% dudes would not even give the bottom 20% uglies the time of day. And instead would be competing for the top say 40% of girls. That s still 2 girls for 1 dude.

You really think the bottom 20 to 40% unfucked uglies would then settle for no calk? I don t think so. They settle for bottom dudes as well. That s how the mating market has always worked. I find it strange that anyone would believe this 20/80 shit.

"I find it strange that anyone would believe this 20/80 shit."

...I find it strange that you wouldn't. If you're tall, fit and have money, it is super easy to be a giant man whore.

 

[KBE6EKCTAH_CCP]

"I find it strange that anyone would believe this 20/80 shit."

...I find it strange that you wouldn't. If you're tall, fit and have money, it is super easy to be a giant man whore.

Completely ignoring the logic i put forward i my post. Not that you owe me anything but well anyways who cares

 

[Contempt]

Completely ignoring the logic i put forward i my post. Not that you owe me anything but well anyways who cares

Which part did you not understand? 80% of women going for the top 20% of guys... the other 20% of "unfucked uglies" as you put it are the ones that know they have any chance at a top 20% guy so go for closer to their level.

Just because 80% of women try to get the top 20% of men, doesn't mean they are successful at it...