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Tuesday night after her surgery in the afternoon, 3 nurses, 2 females and one male, along with a translator told me and 2 of her friends that there was a good chance she could pass away in the next 12-24 hours. I think they were all nurses but it's possible that the male was a doctor. They told us we could speak to the neurosurgeon later if we wanted to .he had already gone home for the day .
The male recommended that we let her pass if she stopped breathing or her heart stopped .I have everything recorded.
I have a 9 year-old son and was against having more kids. I trusted her though and we agreed that we would be a family if she got pregnant.
At this point I only know what the nurses told me. I've tried calling 2 doctors from the last hospital she was transferred from and theu haven't returned my call. I plan to speak to the neurosurgeon later but today I'm working and afterwards I will go see her.
The male recommended that we let her pass if she stopped breathing or her heart stopped .I have everything recorded.
I have a 9 year-old son and was against having more kids. I trusted her though and we agreed that we would be a family if she got pregnant.
At this point I only know what the nurses told me. I've tried calling 2 doctors from the last hospital she was transferred from and theu haven't returned my call. I plan to speak to the neurosurgeon later but today I'm working and afterwards I will go see her.
I'm having a hard time believing much of this. Why is a nurse telling you anything about how long she has to live? She can lose her job for that.
You're leaving out some important details here. If everything was "ok" the friend wouldn't have ever been asked anything regarding her care. So this either didn't happen or she was unconscious and wasn't "ok".
You're against having kids, but you already have kids?
Birth control is horrible
It sounds to me like you're confused and don't understand what is going on with her at all dude. It's understandable and you should speak to a mental health professional about it. Sorry for your loss.