Lost my girlfriend

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  1. SRN

    SRN SOCRATEEEES

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    I'm terribly sorry about this TS. Have you talked with her family? I know it's a hard one but you should give them a call. Even if just to cry together. Where is she from? I'm guessing they are very poor since her mom is not flying to America. I can't imagine her pain.
     
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  2. Alphaboy

    Alphaboy Brown Belt

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    I thought this was gonna be a thread about some cuck getting cheated on and dumped.

    I'm sorry to hear man. Don't know what to say without sounding like some cliche. Ignore the idiot keyboard warriors here, don't let 'em get to you.
     
  3. Brother Numsi

    Brother Numsi Purple Belt

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    That's just a tough deal all the way around. Sorry bro

    I hope things start to get better for you
     
  4. Theprospect26

    Theprospect26 Black Belt

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    If this story is actually true then get your ass to the hospital to be there for and with her right now. It doesn't matter if "she's not aware". It's for support and you never know if she actually is aware. Don't be selfish. You'll end up regretting it also later.
     
  5. TTech

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    That was tough to read. Im sorry man. Im kinda weird like that but dont ever really lose hope, who knows, body has amazing healing ability. Though.....yea I know, in this scenario....
    And I understand the rage against doctors, have had my share of their (very,very bad)mistakes,personal and family. Once you look into it and see statistically how bad it is...sad. I think its 3rd now as the most common cause of death,behind cardiovascular and the C word. I mean just imagine that. Doctors kill so many people its 3rd on the list. Unfathomable.Egomanicas and their negligence. But it will do you no good to focus on anger now,its done. Maybe tell the doc hes a useless POS but other than that let it go.
    Take care man.

    Its literally the first part of the first sentence on the first page of his OP.
     
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  6. PG29 red0 Jr

    PG29 red0 Jr Brown Belt

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    Sorry Sherbro.............
     
  7. Halifax

    Halifax Brown Belt

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    I am so sorry to hear that :(

    Strength to you both and hoping for the best
     
  8. Rdude92

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    lol. Must have jumped some words when I'm reading. Anyways..a girlfriend of 5 months huh? OP..it will take 10 months max to get over her, be strong
     
  9. CrimsonFan

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    This thread has me sad.

    Hope she pulls through.
     
  10. esum80

    esum80 ศิษย์มนต์ชัย

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    sorry to hear about this
     
  11. shanegotu11

    shanegotu11 Brown Belt

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    Damn.

    well damn.

    im sorry. I mean.





    god damn.
     
  12. 84percentcool

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    I don't even know what to say. I'm so fucking sorry, man.

    We're all here for you, brother.
     
  13. RR

    RR Step into the lab Staff Member Senior Moderator

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    Damn. Sorry to hear that. Prayers are with you
     
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    Come on boys... lettuce stay focused on what’s important here and not turn this into a pissing contest.
     
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  16. 45ACP

    45ACP I'll Be Back Belt

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    I don't really know what to say either other than I'm very very sorry. This is just an absolutely terrible situation. I think the best cliche I can offer at this point is the ol "hope for the best but expect the worst" adage. I admire your courage. Stay strong.

    You have support on this forum and many of the people here genuinely care. Others maybe not so much, but do your best to ignore them.
     
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  17. SMillard

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    normally I'd say you need to be there for her, but from what you're saying all you're going to do is torment yourself. Sorry to hear about this, and really sorry you're going through it. I've had similar situations with three people. I went and visited one of them and it was just depressing, you don't know what to do, you feel helpless and at some point you create justifications over the simplest thing like a finger twitching or a tear coming down their face, you know it's just an autonomic reflexive response but you start seeing everything like that as a miracle. It might sound selfish but spare yourself that pain and torment, all it will do is mess with your head. If she is as bad off as you're being told you might want to just go say your last goodbyes, but anything more than that is just torturing yourself.

    Good luck
     
  18. dc007

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    Fuck dude... I'm siting here lamenting fucking shit up with two different girls in my life in one day and this story just makes my problems seem so stupid. Sorry for your loss.
     
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    I'm very sorry to hear this. Remember that their are thousands of stories were doctors and medicine save people. I understand you're upset about healthcare but to say doctors are ignorant and not wanting to help people is wrong.

    Sometimes bad things happened no matter what. I know it's hard to grasp.

    My aunt died a few years ago from cancer in the bone marrow. She got diagnosed and then past week later.... she was only 40yrs old. Doctors tried their best but you can't save everyone.

    Remember they are people and have to live with memories of patients they couldn't save.
     
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  20. tehMoose

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    Holy shit <mma1><mma1><mma1>

    Sorry to hear that. Stay strong sherbro <3
     

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